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Assuming by your user name you're a girl,

I, being a guy, would simply sit with my friends (or if some of my friends were at that table sit with other guys in my class)

If sitting at a different table is out of the question, than it depends on what grade you're in
1-5 sit there but don't expect to be accepted by them or their friends
6-8 a)sit there and start up a conversation with their friends
b)see if you can find a guy to sit at that table with you, that'll shut her up
9-12 a) sit there and talk about a cute guy
b) ask for help on homework you know she has trouble with
c) talk about a subject they(the table) enjoys

2006-09-24 17:03:20 · answer #1 · answered by TheTechKid 3 · 0 0

Well, I would skip the first advice unless you WANT to get suspended from school. The girl at the table is acting like a bully. You have to work on presenting yourself as someone who cannot be intimidated. Do not play the victim.
As a new female teacher, I once had this problem with a male teacher ( who should have known better). I just looked at him and said something like," I don't see your name on it." Then I went back to eating. Everyone else in the room was flabbergasted. Apparently, this guy had a reputation as a bully. I didn't know that, but he never bothered me again. I have also worked in the prison, and have had to be assertive with male inmates who can be very manipulative.
Stand up to her. Try a simple statement like that, " Don't see your name on it." or " Really, does the school allow you to have your own private table?" or , the ever popular "I" statement,"I am puzzled about why you would say that, as far as I know this table is available to anyone."
If the problem persists, talk to a counselor or principal etc. They may suggest sitting at another table ( adults always like to avoid dealing with problems), but that is really not dealing with the issue. Our state has an anti bullying requirement. Schools are required to teach classes on not being a bully and how to handle bullying. Is there something like this at your school? I'd like to end the story with one of those tales about us ending up being best friends. Never happened. I don't like to hang out with people like that. He bullied his students and his family also. We never became friends, but we did reach a silent truce. He didn't bother me if I didn't bother him.

2006-09-24 17:16:14 · answer #2 · answered by bizime 7 · 0 0

U know what ?? I think the best way to deal with ppl like that is to kill them with kindness.Sorry to have bothered u(make sure u r smiling~ it eats them up) I hope u have a very blessed day. Turn around and go sit with other friends at that time. If u don't have any other friends close by,then chose someone u can strike up a conversation with quickly.That will kind-of distract from the situation. Good Luck

2006-09-24 17:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by Me 3 · 0 0

just tell her that you didnt see her name on the chair or on the table and for her to go sit at some other table.

2006-09-24 17:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by snowman3971 3 · 0 0

well first of all were you IN her table or just AT her table???? You can't very easily get out of something that you are not in.

I would tell her that until she or her parents pay for that table themselves then you aren't going anywhere.

2006-09-24 16:49:47 · answer #5 · answered by ktjokt 3 · 0 0

slap her, and say, "stfu ******", her table? did she buy it?

2006-09-24 16:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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