Ok So Ive known this girl for about two years now because we were in the same class. She is very conservative and religous,doesnt swear hardly ever, always going for a very "metrosexual" looking guy. I on the other hand am very open, I dont go to church at all, and you could say that I have a very colorful vocabulary. I also dont drss very metro im just your average kind of guy. I try my best to not swear around her and well actually since june ive only seen her a couple times. She never answers her phone when anyone calls not just me. I know that I just wont have a chance in hell pretty much. What would I do to maybe get her to have some kind of interest in me without being obvious that i like her. I need help
2006-09-24 16:40:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't change for that chick, you're what she needs. Imagine how it must feel to live in a self imposed prison of conservativism. She needs a guy like you to help her relax. Remember not to be too gross too vulgar too soon though.
It also helps if you can impress her with your knowledge and other non-physical things that no one else can offer her.
2006-09-24 16:55:20 · answer #1 · answered by Brixton B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to me that is so sweet, if you show you show her this sweet side she might start to talk to you more.Try talkn as a friend for a lil while and casually start flirtn dnt come across to strong good grls freak out nd think yr only afta 1 thing. Myslef use to b a private school grl nd know how they think. Just try to keep the french down nd if this grl is 2 caught up wif herself to notice you nd all the nice things you try to do dnt waste yr time you sound sweet enough to get any gel you want besides there is plenty more fish in the sea lol
2006-09-24 23:49:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to be yourself and ask the girl out. You may want to kind of get to know her first so you know you are not going after someone who is already taken, or someone who it not at all interested in you. You just want to go up to her and start talking about things the two of you may have in common. If she laughs and is really shy, she most likely likes you and you have to take it from there. Ask her out on a date at that point, but do go to fast. It is best to not rush these types of things.
2006-09-24 23:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all,. do not change yourself! Thats what makes you---you! If you like her, tell her. If she doesn't like you, for you, HER LOSS. Just tell her how you feel. She make see past that stuff! Girls like it when your honest. If you beat around the bush or try and lie or anything like that she can sense that! Think Positive, (i know it sounds cheesy, but I've been married 5 years, take my word for it.) Best wishes, and Good Luck with 'Lady Love'!!! ps-if she still doesn't go for it, she wasn't worth it. She doesn't deserve you! ~E~
2006-09-24 23:57:37 · answer #4 · answered by ellienix05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems to me that you really like her, beware of this girl , she does not swear and is too conservative but on the inside she is something else, i am careful about this types of people who seem to be holier than thou because when they show there real side they really are wild, believe me the more they appear kind, the more challenging they are, well you love her, just find a way to get her out of her shell
2006-09-24 23:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its been two years. Not sure how old you are and I know you'll hate me for saying this (I know I will) but u just gotta tell her. It'll suck but I thinks it's the only way. Besides opposites attract and metrosexuals are all poofs.
2006-09-24 23:44:11 · answer #6 · answered by adamvanessen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, just be obvious. Don't scare her, but reach out a little more and try to hang out more often. Even if it's just lunch, make more of an effort to 'run into her'.
2006-09-24 23:44:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you should start going to church with her. you can always get to know somebody through church then you will have something to talk to her about. or ask her about religion.please don't be affraid to talk to her hi can go a long way.
stay strong and tell her you like her.
2006-09-24 23:52:18 · answer #8 · answered by DANNYGIRL21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet her at her church one day or ask her to go with you cuse you want to try some new ones and that should break the ice, but just tell her you like her even thou you 2 are diff.
2006-09-24 23:44:02 · answer #9 · answered by Alex B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is worth the effort then YOU have lots of changing to do..... but if you are NOT sincere about it all then just forget it... she will see straight thru you my friend..... so make your choice and go with it...... either you go all the way and make the effort to change for her or you dont........ but even if you find she is worth it and you make your changes in your life, you still might find her NOT interested.... all you can do is show by your life..... and slowly show her...... she can not be pushed...... God bless
2006-09-24 23:44:58 · answer #10 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋