Ive known a girl on the internet for 3-3 1/2 years. I plan on moving to her state in a few years. Ive talked to her on the mic and all that. We both admitted we have deep feelings for eachother and we have never argued about anything. Do you think it will work out between us?
2006-09-24 16:39:38 · 22 answers · asked by ignftw 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a posibility, just keep an open communication between the two of you
2006-09-24 16:41:36 · answer #1 · answered by Kitty Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telephones are a great way to get to know each other. But - before you make any plan to move - or wonder if it will work out or not... Plan a visit first. Take a week off work - plan a vacation to visit her - and see what kind of face-to-face feelings surface. It may be difficult - but leave sex out of the equation if possible. When you are "Getting to Know" someone - sex can sometimes create an "illusion"... make you feel and think things that aren't really there. Play it safe -- and test the waters before you dive in.
2006-09-24 23:47:41 · answer #2 · answered by Juzt_b_238 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend time with her in person. She could have any number of unsavory habits, like poor hygiene, bad manners, rude behavior, selfishness, things you can't tell from an internet relationship. Before picking up and moving to her state, ask yourself if you would want to stay in her state if it doesn't work out. It takes about one and 1/2 years to get to know someone in person well enough to consider marriage. It takes that long to observe the other person in all types of situations to see how they handle life. It takes that long to see if your philosophies are the same, if your thoughts on child rearing are the same, if your thoughts on how to handle finances are the same, if you have compatable religious beliefs. There are lots of areas that need to be explored in person so you can actually see her facial expressions, her body language, and so on before making a decision to move and marry her. Good luck.
2006-09-24 23:55:20 · answer #3 · answered by LadyLgl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in touch with a guy a year and a half in the Internet, we had a great relationship and when we decided to meet we run out of conversation after 45 minutes, You can never know how it is with net relationships, I do wish you luck though.
2006-09-24 23:46:16 · answer #4 · answered by yafit k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet before you do that. However, if youre going to move to her state anyway, I guess you could meet her then. May I just say that internet is a type of relationship, but it has its limits on getting to know a person. Really, its a very limited way to know someone. Good luck.
2006-09-24 23:48:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only time will tell, if you guys have talked for so long then what has been keeping you from meeting? Could it be that deep down your comfortable with the situation? If that is the case then when you do meet things are going to be different and not all people can handle change, are you one of those people?
2006-09-24 23:45:01 · answer #6 · answered by tink_1624 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know her first all over again when you meet her. It's one thing jumping on the computer, spending all that time talking but you got to know her personality, not the small things that set everyone off, like you i'm sure theres things about her that you dont know. If you both try together, anything can work. Good luck.
2006-09-24 23:43:43 · answer #7 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe, I cannot say for sure since it is only the internet. If I were you, I would fly out there for a weekend and spend some time with her before moving out there for good. After spending the weekend with her, find out if she is the same person as she is online, people aren't always the same when you meet them in person. Good luck
2006-09-24 23:43:54 · answer #8 · answered by ridingis4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two, to make a relationship work. I personally think I would visit a time or two before picking up and moving. That way you know for sure that she means what she is saying on the net.
2006-09-24 23:49:18 · answer #9 · answered by kram k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, we know neither one fo you, nor do we have enough info on your 3 1/2 year relationship. I would not factor arguing into the equation as ya'll have no been around each other!
2006-09-24 23:42:25 · answer #10 · answered by hilltopper_lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to start dating someone you met off the internet, then go ahead. You really need to be around the person to know if you are going to make it with them. I think the two of you should get together and see where it goes from there.
2006-09-24 23:41:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋