just recently, i noticed a girl. she looked cute.she is a bookworm. she has a good personality and thats why i like her. we hung out but it was boring. she and i have nothing in common in that she like the things that i don't. i like her because she's cofident in the way she looks and how she acts. should i give it another go and whut shoulde we do. when should i tell her that i like her and want her to be mai gf. this is not a crush so don't think of it this way. by doing whut things should i do to make her like me back. i need help and fast. should i go after her now before its too late, and if i do whut should i say, i'm shy. plus she goes to another school so i gotta do this fast
2006-09-24 16:33:26 · 11 answers · asked by john g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why don't you develope an interest in what interests her.If you really like someone you should get pleasure out of seeing them get excited about those things that interest them. My ex taught me like to baseball, it excited him.......now I like it. I got one now totally into football.....I don't know a damned thing about football but would love to learn.....seeing him excited about something excites me.......see how it works. Now if more people thought that way it wouldn't matter what we had in common, people expose us to more things so we grow....
2006-09-24 16:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what she's reading about all the time. Ask her to show you around or teach you about something she's read. If she feels like she's in the spotlight, she may really shock you with some hidden passion for something. Make her in charge of the next date. She'll probably research places & find something really fun to do. It sounds like she definately does her homework on a subject!
2006-09-24 23:39:16 · answer #2 · answered by tigerlily27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her bowling or something, where you can laugh together, she'd be nervous as anything! So take that into consideration, shes probably not boring she just dosnt know what to say to you either! Activites are the best way to open up someone, so maybe take her to the pool, movies use your head!
2006-09-24 23:37:07 · answer #3 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for a walk in a park,,, take along a small picnic lunch,,,
you can still see each other even if she goes to another school,,,you should be honest with her tell her how you feel,,, and tell the truth,, maybe you can get to like some of the thing's she likes and vise verse,,,
good luck,,
2006-09-24 23:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by rockindalefan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, she's not for you. You find her boring and you have nothing in common. Don't be so shallow to feel that because of her looks, you're in love. Let her find someone who shares things with her, because it's not you. Sorry.
2006-09-24 23:37:30 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well opposites attract each other. Just ask her out and find out what things she does like and doesn't like. You might be surprised...you may have more in common than you think.
2006-09-24 23:36:57 · answer #6 · answered by Lipstick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her about everything.tell her why u like her.But I think u dunnot suppose to be her bf.It need love. Love mean Share. U nothing to share with her.Your personality really different.If u want to make your heart satisfy, go tell her about your feeling.
2006-09-24 23:38:24 · answer #7 · answered by Gemini_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her for her phone # and then call her. Start up a conversation about maybe what you did over the weekend and then ask her what she did that weekend. Maybe then ask her what else she like to do in her free time. Something like that.
2006-09-24 23:43:08 · answer #8 · answered by flutterby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to be more open to new things, if you want to have a relationship with her. people are usually more attracted to other people who are interested in trying the things that they like to do; even if they dont end up liking those things, at least they put in the effort.
2006-09-24 23:35:05 · answer #9 · answered by jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JOHN, IF YOU DON'T HAVE NOTHING IN COMMON, THEN IT'S NOT GOING TO WORK. YOU SAY YOU LIKE HER B/C YOU LIKE THE WAY SHE ACTS AND B/C SHE'S CONFIDENT IN HERSELF, BUT YOU ALSO CAN FIND SOMEONE WITH THE SAME QUALITIES, AND STILL HAVE SOMETHING IN COMMON. I'M SORRY JOHN, BUT IT WON'T WORK OUT, YOU'VE GOT TO MOVE ON.
2006-09-24 23:38:51 · answer #10 · answered by tinkerbell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋