I really like this gurl alot...me n her are party buddies...n weve just recently become **** buddies...im tryin to make her my gurl cuz shes cool as hell...but she has slept w/like 6 guys overall...n she turns "wild" when she's drunk...is it possible to make her my gf...n would it be wise?
(she kinda likes this other dude as well, her other **** buddie)
2006-09-24 16:32:25 · 28 answers · asked by d_unit2k7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you dont care if you gf is a whore then go for it.....a leopard will never change their spots....so you have got to be able to accept her for her or dont bother
2006-09-24 16:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by askaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that if you try to be more than friends, you're either going to get your feelings hurt or your heart broken.
I'm assuming you'd want her to be faithful to you. If she turns "wild" when she's drunk and she isn't able to stay away from alcohol, she may not be able to stick with that. And then there's the business of her sleeping with another guy. She may be a great girl in a lot of ways, but those things sound kind of scary - not to mention a recipe for either your getting an STD or her ending up pregnant and not knowing who the dad is.
If it means a lot to you, you can try. You can have an honest talk with her, tell her what you're worried about, and that you'd like it if she was your girlfriend. She may think it's a great idea.
Just keep her away from the booze. Oh - and probably you shouldn't call her a "hoe", either. Girls are funny about stuff like that.
2006-09-24 23:49:16 · answer #2 · answered by IrritableMom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so. If you take the time to talk to her and let her know what your feeling and how her being a hoe makes you feel, I think she might give some consideration to being girlfriend material. Let her know. Women like to know what men are thinking especially when it comes to love and all that.
2006-09-24 23:35:06 · answer #3 · answered by hedge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would never be able to trust her, and you don't even know if she has AIDS or any other STD. I don't think you're making a wise choice. Thats scary man,it's better to leave this hoe alone.
2006-09-24 23:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by hugabug72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imagine what diseases she may have! Theres no changing a girl from a hoe into a woman, she needs to mature before this is going to happen. Dont you think its nasty her screwing another guy aswell as you? Dirty!
2006-09-24 23:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That probably would be a bad idea. She's a hoe as you can tell. You should find a girl that has more respect for herself.
2006-09-24 23:37:56 · answer #6 · answered by Blah..... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh sweetie, i hate to say this but no, i mean if u do change her in the back of your mind you will always doubt about everything she does and if she has another sexs buddy i think u should leave her alone on that part
2006-09-24 23:34:55 · answer #7 · answered by jada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why waste your time, once a hoe, always a hoe. Even if she changes for a short time. One day she will cheat on you, and that will be it. Once a player, always a player.
2006-09-24 23:34:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's an old saying, "You can't turn a wh ore into a housewife" but you can certainly turn a housewife into a wh ore. I've had alot of experience with that.
2006-09-24 23:35:04 · answer #9 · answered by dirty bird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say what the number of girls you have selpt with are.
I would say gou get what you see. Just don't try to make her be something she is not. That NEVER works out.
What ever you do good luck.
2006-09-24 23:39:51 · answer #10 · answered by ancestorhorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you can't turn her into a girlfriend but you can turn her into a money making hoe.
2006-09-24 23:35:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋