Alright so me and this dude have been seeing each other right........we share the same intrests completly. but he refuses to get a cell phone so i can never reach him.....and we only see each other like once a month, but in know that we like each other..what can i do to make him want to see me more....(wow this sounds really gay, cant believe im asking this on yahoo answers) but if you can just give me some info that would be awesome!
2006-09-24 16:25:32 · 22 answers · asked by Itisme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We are both single, and i know that he is not seeing anyone else, he likes to get high and go see bob dylan concerts..lol, like i said we have ALOT in common.....(there is a problem though, his best friend likes me even though he knows that me and "my dude" have been together)
2006-09-24 16:34:02 · update #1
He tells me that when he gets a job and a apartment of his own he will want to have a relationship, cause hes not ready for one right now......which i respect and i dont care though!
2006-09-24 16:41:00 · update #2
Almost everybody reacts against, this is do the contrary.
In this case, tell him that you want to see him only once every 2 months, that you are busy, etc.
His reaction will be exactly the opposite, believe me, this works 9 out of 10 times.
I understand you don't believe this can be true, but I bet that after doing it, you will remember this advise and you will smile as well.
Try it
Enjoy it
Get him yours.
2006-09-24 16:30:26 · answer #1 · answered by Classy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the reason he is only seeing you once a month? Do you live far apart from each other? This is what bothers me. If he likes you enough, he should want to see you more. If he is not physically able to see you more, then he should have an email at least so the two of you can communicate when apart from each other. Even if he has no computer in his home, he can use a computer in a public library and get an email address, or he could get an email address through his school.
I have heard of people having aversions to cell phones and they refuse to own one. I can understand this. Yet, is there not another phone number you could reach him at.
Be careful. Get more facts. He could be lying to you.
2006-09-24 16:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by danaluana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy wanted you, you would have to get a restraining order to keep him away. I wouldn't suggest you try to make him notice you, because it probably wouldn't be the real you, and over time it wouldn't work out. So, just keep seeing him once a month until something better comes along. If he doesn't like you for who you are, then let it go.
Maybe you are psychotic, and he doesn't want to be in that type of relationship or something? Just a thought. I don't know you, so it would be impossible to tell you what the problem is. But it does seem a bit odd that you would bring this up on Yahoo answers?
Maybe he is gay or something? He just doesn't know it yet, and he is exploring sex, who knows?
Maybe he is married. My god, there are millions of possibilities. Just look elsewhere for what you want.
2006-09-24 16:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by DallasGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 20:08:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a month? Are you at opposite ends of the country? I have had penpals that I talked to more often than that. He definately likes his alone time too much. Maybe he's not as into this as you are...Give him the opportunity to include you a little more, somehow. If he doesn't, go to your nearest Nextel store, wait outside the door & ask out the 1st guy that comes out. At least you know he has a phone! ; )
2006-09-24 16:33:59 · answer #5 · answered by tigerlily27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in my opinion theirs no such thing as a stupid question. If this guy doesn't want to continue talking but only once a month then it sounds like this guy is hiding something. Maybe he is doing something more than you expect. In my opinion this guy just wants you for something more. Just be careful
2006-09-24 16:36:19 · answer #6 · answered by Luke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was really interested in you, he'd get a phone and he wouldnt be able to keep himself away from you. I think you may be the chick on the side and thats why he wont get a phone, because he already has one! And he dosnt want his girlfriend to find out. Be careful because you may get hurt.
2006-09-24 16:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i went throught the same thing i think the best u can do if a fine a good moment to ask him how does he feel about n then u can ask him y he doesnt c u more often..or u can juss try to play it off n throw it some where as a joke ..like , u dun even like to c me!?lol ..eather that or make him feel more curious about u.
2006-09-24 16:28:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm... there is nothing you can do to make sb. to do sth. Have you tried telling him that you want to see him more often? Worse scenario, you are not the only one he is seeing? Better scenario, he is just not financially able to get a cell phone.
2006-09-24 16:32:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow he is giving you the run around , he really does have a cell
phone but he doesn't want to give you the number,, and you only see him once a month , he has someone else ,yes a girlfriend
and you are his dessert, , don't you get it you are being played, kick his booty , kick him to the curb, you deserve better....
2006-09-24 16:35:12 · answer #10 · answered by E.M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋