should i break up with my gf? she is a great person and beaituful but every time i talk to her she is sad and it puts me in a sad/bad mood and stuff but i don't want her mad at me
and also there is someone else and i really don't like my gf as in a future wife anymore
should i break up with her?
2006-09-24 16:15:36 · 11 answers · asked by blah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its totally up to you...
2006-09-24 16:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should basically tell her what you said here. Tell her that you think she is beautiful and a great person but that the only problem is that you get sad after talking to her because she is so sad.
Then see if she's willing to see a psychiatrist to find out if she suffers from depression and if antidepressants/therapy will help. If she refuses to get help, then you should break up with her. But please, if you care about her at all, see if you can persuade her into getting help. Otherwise if you abandon her now, think about how absolutely devasted she might be.
Good luck.
2006-09-24 23:38:02 · answer #2 · answered by tiggergoesbouncebounce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly enough, if you don't feel that her mood can change, you may want to consider that. You dont' want to be around someone who brings you down.
If you're sure you've exhausted all your options and that this new person is someone interested in you as well who complements you, then maybe you should.
Did you find out what is making your girlfriend sad and if it's actually curable?
2006-09-24 23:18:38 · answer #3 · answered by Link of Hyrule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If you don't feel the same way about her, and you don't see a future with her, then definitely break it off so you both can move on.
2006-09-24 23:18:10 · answer #4 · answered by becka06096 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If their is someone else then YES! You should break up with her..
Let her move on and forget about you.
She doesn't need a boyfriend who has someone else!!!!
2006-09-24 23:17:31 · answer #5 · answered by Heather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her whats bothering her. You need to find out first what's on her mind. If she doesn't answer, give her time. If she blocks you out, break up with her!
2006-09-24 23:17:53 · answer #6 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw, well you can't be with her if she makes you feel sad. she's really supposed to be there for you to make your day a better one...and if she's not doing that then it's not your obligation to stay with her. i think you should.
2006-09-24 23:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should break up with ur punk butt,,,she might be going through something,,while u want to be with someone else,,,u suck
2006-09-24 23:20:55 · answer #8 · answered by Sweetpea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. lol. whats the problem, are you scared to do it? just do it now and stop worrying about it, if you're really that unhappy with her.
2006-09-24 23:17:38 · answer #9 · answered by jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUH!! of course you should break up with her. maybe she wants you to break up with her and that is why she is always making you in a sad/bad/mad mood. but wutever. dump her a ss!
2006-09-24 23:23:32 · answer #10 · answered by Emilie K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋