ok so i met this guy and he was sopposed to meet me lastnight. he said he would be there no later than 9:30....i waited until 10:30 i texted him and called him and he didn't answer so i just left. then when i got home i got an email saying he "dropped his cell phone out the window" and so he im'ed me today and said that he would make it up to me and buy me flowers and come down here tonight (i didnt demand any gifts by the way) and now it's 11:15 and i just im'ed him and he signed off. what is up with this ******* guy!
2006-09-24 16:14:33 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Run as fast as you can...and DON'T look back. You don't need trouble like that.
2006-09-24 16:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by serendipity 2 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 08:14:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a guy that has done this a few times and either he is playing with you or he just got of the im'ed thing and going to your house right now.
2006-09-24 16:23:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie,U need to just scratch that one of your list cause even it the phone was in the toilet he still could have called u on someone Else and he still could have showed up and after the a.second time I would just say look I got other things to do than play with u cause u don't know or have clue of how to be a real man so step on and Ill see ya when i see ya
2006-09-24 16:20:52 · answer #4 · answered by motherof319662000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's jerking you around honey. He just wants to keep you available for the 2/a.m. bootie call. Don't contact him anymore and don't accept any excuses. He's a loser and this is only the tip of the iceberg as to how he would treat you in the future. If he respected you at all none of this would have happened. Have respect for yourself and don't let some loser rob you of your dignity by pursuing him. A guy should never tell you he's buying you anything he would just do it.
2006-09-24 16:18:10 · answer #5 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, either he's with another woman and chose her over you, or he's engrossed in something else. It if football day (as was yesterday) and he might have gotten caught up in the game. This is all moot however, if he can't keep his word from the get go, then he definately won't keep it later. Move on, and find someone better.
2006-09-24 16:17:23 · answer #6 · answered by joelevan18 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Whats to understand.... women are complex and men only have an on and off button. or in the case of IM's sign on and off buttons.
You seem so surprised... men are predictable. They have 2 heads but only have enough blood flow to think with one at a time. It would seem to me he had a better offer (in his mind).
He ain't worth it... and you could certainly do much better than him... Can you imagine how dependable he would be in a relationship or marriage..... I think not!
2006-09-24 16:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he still has "someone" in his life. I not saying like hes with someone. But u know how break ups are... sometimes u hold on to them for a little longer after u break up. Maybe he feels guilty because its "too" soon? I would write him an email saying like.
"Hi. I was just wondering whats up? really... whats up? I feel like you are blowing me off and if u really truely are then just tell me so I can move on. If u have someone else u are seeing or just broke up with someone please tell me, I will try to understand the best I can. But I cant do anything about whats going on with out your imput. So please lets just chat. We dont have to do it face to face (if its too uncomfortable for you) we can talk in email or IM. If U dont want to have something with me then how bout u just dont respond to this... easy enough right? Well, got to go.
2006-09-24 16:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The real question is: Will you give him another chance, if the answer is yes, then you are stupid. Drop the guy now, it's in the genes, he's trouble and will always be trouble.
2006-09-24 16:17:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
He's a player, and it's not with you. Tell him to hit the road and find someone that will be there for you when you make a date.
2006-09-24 16:18:38 · answer #10 · answered by Red 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What time did he say he was meeting you , maybe he signed off just as you were getting on, but if you think he is blowing you off I would just say hey look I don't think its going to work out
2006-09-24 16:17:05 · answer #11 · answered by chemicalbrothers13 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋