How can I do this, i'd really do anything.
2006-09-24 15:48:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off, let me commend you for being so romantic! That's lovely to see.
Okay, now to the answer. First of all, you have to be sure she wants to get back together. If that's the case, the way to make it fresh and new is to do fresh and new things. Take her out somewhere you've both never been. Compliment her on things you never complimented before. Give her a "just because" gift.
Try this. And good luck getting your girl back!!
2006-09-24 15:59:22 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time really does help cure a lot of ails. It hurts a lot in the beginning, but in the long run, you'll look back and see that you weren't right for each other. She did you a favor by letting you go so you could grow. Otherwise, you'd be stuck in a dead-end relationship where neither one of you would go anywhere.
I know that doesn't help much now, but you'll reflect on this later. The best thing to do right now is what your doing- reach out to other people and find out what went wrong so you don't make the same mistakes again and learn from them. You haven't given us much information as to why she dumped you, but I'm sure there were good reasons, whatever they were. Change those reasons. Grow up! Do something different with you life. Be someone else. Be with someone else. Just be for a while and see how that feels. Then, go out and date again.
2006-09-24 22:56:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's past that now, and I think you need to move on. If the two of you broke up, it was for a reason and I do not think you really want to go back again. Are you really sure that is what you want. She broke up with you so that must mean she does not want to be with you. If I was you I would move on and let she see that I was happy without her. That way like all humans, she will want what she can not have. That will be you, because you are already taken.
2006-09-24 22:48:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you would first need to start with a big romantic gesture.... if she is willing to take you back, treat her like she is the most special thing in the entire world.... as far as something new, try taking a class together in something that you are both interested in (some suggestions: a cooking class, ballroom dancing, or join a book club together). You will both learn something new, and you will be involved with others as well, so it won't be the same thing over and over again
2006-09-24 22:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie73 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it felt old and boring after only 2 years the relationship was not a good one anyway.
2006-09-24 22:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude, was it the sex? First of all, you got to somewhat get her attention. Smooth her over gently. Compliment her and make her feel she's so special. Get her in the zone. Once you got her there, invite her in to a private candle lit room and go to town like you've never been before!! Do not stop short buddy!! All night long!! You know what I'm say'n? Give it all you possibly got!! Good Luck!!!!!!
2006-09-24 23:00:19 · answer #6 · answered by moe m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did she break up with you to begin with? she probably realized you weren't right for her.if it got boring and old that quick then she wasn't right for you either.there isn't anything you can do to get her back,if she wanted you she would still be there.let it go,the right women will come along when you least expect it.go on with your life and don't waste one second ,life is to short.your relationship went sour with her because it wasn't meant to be.hang in there good buddy go out and enjoy yourself. pete
2006-09-24 23:02:06 · answer #7 · answered by THE SHADOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have to let this one go...but take the good memories with you. You will find someone special again. Sorry you're hurting.
2006-09-24 22:51:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just think you are afraid to be alone. You will be fine when the next 'love' comes along.
2006-09-24 22:49:41 · answer #9 · answered by girlonline64 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both are not meant for each other it will never be,,,,even if you will do everything to win her back
2006-09-24 23:19:55 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋