the thing is that I tried to stick my finger in to see if the hymen was fully broken, and my finger went in fine, now i'm confused because I dont know why there was all that pain when me and my boyfriend tried to have sex...can anyone help me?
Thks!
2006-09-24 15:43:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie,U may be just small and or he could be rather large.Or both.Best thing to really do is use lubricant and take it slow and easy so it is not so painful for ya.It will get better with time as your body adapts to him and his size and shape.
2006-09-24 15:49:48 · answer #1 · answered by motherof319662000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't suddenly just "get used to it" you know. It takes time to stretch that area. It isn't just the hymen. You have a hole that's never had anything larger than a finger or two in it. A penis is much larger than that.
It'll continue to hurt but the hurt will gradually lessen to nothing.
2006-09-24 22:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe u have not been loosened enough. I am not an expert or anything on this stuff. If u are young and cannot turn to a parent go to webmd.com. Also u can call up a gynecologist and ask questions.
2006-09-24 22:47:27 · answer #3 · answered by The All Knowing Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hurts the first few times. thats normal. its just that ur muscles r not used to that type of action yet. a few more times adn u will be fine, until then try using a lubricant
2006-09-24 22:46:24 · answer #4 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go in a few inches at a time until I'm wet enough not to hurt her, but that comes with experience and being big. Teach him to take his time at first.
2006-09-24 22:47:24 · answer #5 · answered by Sean 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to have lots of lube and go really slow you are just so fresh that it will be tender for a while. Even after children if we have not had relations for a time I can be quite sensitive as well...especially if he is of the larger variety!
2006-09-24 22:47:40 · answer #6 · answered by Shannon Day 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats because ur not healed yet. U shopuld ait until u have heal b 4 u have sex again.
2006-09-25 00:03:39 · answer #7 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might not have been fully broken, or you might not be loose enough yet. it most likely wont hurt anymore after a little while, so dont worry about it.
2006-09-24 22:45:34 · answer #8 · answered by jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to relax and enjoy yourselves. When you are ready it will not hurt. If it hurts at first go very slow. You may have your boyfriend message your vagina with his tonque to get you ready as well!
Have fun and relax...
2006-09-24 22:58:49 · answer #9 · answered by Jake D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur fine, it happends. u just gotta get used 2 it
2006-09-24 22:45:48 · answer #10 · answered by perez_cristian_89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋