Help! Does he still love me like he says he does?

Question

Ive been with this guy for 1 1/2 years, when we first got together we talked about everything, he looked at me like I was the most beautiful girl in the world, then about 5 months after living together I'd catch him looking at other girls while we were out to dinner or what not. Right in front of me. Now he wont talk to me, I tell him we need to talk, he says no I am not talking, But he tells me he still loves me and wants to be with me. We still have sex, but he doesn't seem to want to please me anymore. He ignores me and always wants to do things with his family and not me. He is a truck driver and gone all week. This is his first relationship ever. I am 2500+ miles away from anyone I know, I am so depressed and loneley. Does he still love me? And what do I do to get him interrested again and to talk and stuff? HELP!

Answer 1

Some guys see the attainment of the girl as the end of the game, so to speak. Sounds like he's one of them.

The best thing you can do is give him his space...I mean, really give him his space, to the point that he knows he's not connecting with you, and gets curious as to why you've stopped pursuing him. Personally, I think living together was probably the beginning of your problems, because now he's "got" you. He doesn't see you as something he has to continue to pursue. I would suggest the same problem would happen if you got married, unless you made yourself something pursuable, if you catch my drift.

First thing I'd do is move back out and gain back some independence. Give him a reason to come find you again. Although, if I were you, I would leave it open-ended for a while. If you truly take this attitude I'm suggesting, you might be surprised at who you might garner interest from.

Answer 2

obviously he's not acting like he loves you. He doesn't want to talk to you?? A good relationship needs communication. He changed from the guy you first knew and that is the first sign that something is wrong. You shouldn't change in a relationship, at least not the drastically. I would back off of him right now because he's not showing you the respect that you deserve, he can say anything he want,s but actions speak louder than words

Answer 3

if he stopped loving you (and it seems like he did, very sorry to say) you cant do anything about it. life goes on, you'll find someone better..or you can try and be friends with him. i dont know why but it sometimes works. you hang out as freinds, get to talk like you used to and he might realize what he lost and get back together...

Answer 4

no