I hired this trainer in one of the biggest gyms in here 2 months ago, who I did not find attractive at first.
But then, after a few weeks, I started to have feelings for him, partly because of his physical attributes and personality. I tried my best not to show anything in front of him, because I want to it professional.
He did sent me some signals at times, like, he would help me stretch or lift weight in a way that involve body touch (i.e. putting his legs on my lap or sticking his chests on my back), at one time, we had eye contact for a few seconds, although he turned around embarrassedly.
He always look at me with a caring smile on his face and put his hand on my shoulder (in a friendly way) etc.... Maybe I misinterpret things (yes, I saw him checked out other girls), or maybe somehow he know that I am gay, so he work it and try to keep me as his client.
I just couldn't get him out of my head. Should I just let him know and get this over with or should I keep hiding it from him?
2006-09-24 15:32:13 · 9 answers · asked by Victor V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oral
2006-09-24 16:40:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, make sure he's definately gay. Someone at the gym most likely knows. What does your gaydar tell you? He may be wondering the same about you.
2006-09-24 15:39:26 · answer #2 · answered by jassee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask around - make sure he's actually gay. All the touching business may well just be him doing his job.
2006-09-24 19:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by Hannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I no its hard but rem its only a crush and hes your trainer keep it professional and if you really cant help it then talk to him!! He may not be gay and maybe you need a different trainer Hun...
2006-09-24 18:26:36 · answer #4 · answered by Caz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you've misread the signals. i see blokes getting close and touching each other all the time at my gym ( when weight lifting)
2006-09-24 17:26:51 · answer #5 · answered by kunt 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get down to business
2006-09-24 17:35:50 · answer #6 · answered by Tatiana 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave the man alone he is just doing his job. Shame, Shame, Shame on you.
2006-09-24 15:40:45 · answer #7 · answered by thundercat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
write your number on the toilet wall & see if he phones u
2006-09-26 07:43:32 · answer #8 · answered by howaytheladlee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you even bothering to ask you know what you want to do
2006-09-24 15:53:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋