How do you know if the guy youlike just wants to sleep with you or if they really want a goos solid relation ship?
2006-09-24 15:11:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Put sleeping with him off and if he stays around then he likes you and doesn't just want to sleep with you.
2006-09-24 15:14:18 · answer #1 · answered by Sean 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if he wants a "good and solid" relationship he still wants to sleep with you. He's young and you are younger and that's what it's all about when you are that age. In time you'll know if it is just for sex or for both but don't expect it to not to be about sex at all.
2006-09-24 15:41:12 · answer #2 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know if he is the right guy? ...He doesn't ask you for your phone number.
He doesn;t have sex on the first date.
He doesn;t talk all the time.
He is a good listener.
He opens the door for you in the car or truck.
He always calls you by your last name.
2006-09-24 15:15:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never know for sure. But if he spends alot of time around u says sweet things, and doens't give up easily, he must like u. But if he just wants THAT he will most likely give up quick. (to try for another girl) Because if u love someone, u only love them, Because they are themselves and their is no others like them. But if they want sex, they look for an attractive partner, and if one rejects, they look for another.
2006-09-24 15:13:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants more than sex he will try to get to know you better before trying to take it to that level you will know if he is the right guy if he shows you respect, value your opinion, honest, trustworthy, etc. most people just know when they meet the right one for them
2006-09-24 15:21:13 · answer #5 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why you get to know them and go on a few dates and figure it out. If he only talks about sex then that give you the answer to one question.
2006-09-24 15:13:55 · answer #6 · answered by Han Solo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they aren't trying to have sex with you, then they probably want a relationship. If they are... i guess it would be hard to tell. try telling them no and see what happens, if they dump you or stay with you. Consider that your test to see what they really want.
Or you could just tell them you have an STD (lol!). no, don't really do that; i was just joking.
2006-09-24 15:14:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still dont know after 30 years of marriage. She may be the right one though.
2006-09-24 15:13:54 · answer #8 · answered by Rammohan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you actually ready for a real relationship and settling down or, no? It's maturity, and compatibility and experience and knowing how to properly type.
2006-09-24 15:13:41 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The good solid relationship should come first.....if he keeps coming back even there is no sex......he really likes you.
2006-09-24 15:14:48 · answer #10 · answered by greeneyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋