well I was in love with this girl and told her that she ment every thing to me. and wel she was trully the best thing that has ever happend to me but well one day she called me and told me that it was over and never told me any reason why it shouldn't work. I cried like a baby about it do you really know how it fells when you loss some one you really love then well if you do tell me how to fell better and well love her still but aslo continu my life that is with out her or could I not do that?
2006-09-24 15:04:48 · 8 answers · asked by abeshawiwe!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I remember.
It will happen a few more times probably in your life
before you find the right one.
When one door closes another one will open, it always does.
Time does heal the heartache, may not seem like it now, but it will. I promise, it will get better and when your next love comes
you'll remember but without the ache you feel inside.
It's growing pains, but with out the risk of love you can't benefit it's rewards,
also the only difference between infatuationa nd love is time.
it's easy to fall in love and very hard to stay there. Love needs alot of nurturing and what you feel the first year oe two changes with time, The original passion and intensity mellows out and then a richer love and respect develop. it's give and take, patience, kindness, respect, sometimes compromise and trust and communication, sometimes it's backing off a little and it's being a friend enough to tell the truth.
there is also the romance and challange involved, whereas you don't want to go overboard and smother even if you feel that way, dont express it all at once and take the intrigue and wonder out of it. be thoughtful.
as I said give it time, choose carefully if your heart lets you when you commit to a one on one relationship
2006-09-24 15:18:27 · answer #1 · answered by 2K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah My Son, tis noble indeed, to feel like you could die for love , but dying for love is for the books and not for young men because dying is so pemanent and not so good for young men like you.Many songs have been written on "Young love" (mostly Golden Oldies) and how they felt is the way you feel! Time will heal all wounds but you will never forget your first love. I am 50 yrs old and still remember mine and so will you. Tommorow the sun will still rise in the East,and the wind will still blow and the moon will still rise, and the stars will still twinkle and you will get over her in time but YOU WILL NEVER FORGET HER!!!
2006-09-24 22:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to sound cliche, but it takes time and theres no way to speed up the moving on process. Keep busy and spend more time with friends. It must hurt because she didnt give you a reason, so there wasnt much closure, but you have to move on and you can move on without her.
2006-09-24 22:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by Tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not really, but i tried really heard for one whole school year on this girl that i really liked, i had a feeling she liked me but was too shy to tell me. i was like obsessed with her and stuff, i told her i didn't love her anymore , its been a year since, but ive always loved her, I dunno why i feel this way ive never felt so strongly before.
2006-09-24 22:08:02 · answer #4 · answered by §†reet R¥dA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...yes i do and you have to move on. no use living in the past if the person doesn't like you now.
2006-09-24 22:09:17 · answer #5 · answered by Han Solo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time it took me three years
2006-09-24 22:09:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it was your inability to spell.
2006-09-24 22:12:41 · answer #7 · answered by Shea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeha but she was prob. just scared.
2006-09-24 22:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by foxy lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋