He does not know I am gay..also he is the quarterback of the J.V football team he is so cute
2006-09-24 14:57:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At first you should confirm that...is he love boy also?
Did he got a girl friend?
If he din have girl friend,then i think it's never mind,
just tell him your feeling...
But if you worry,then don't be too serious when you tell him...
feel like just a kidding...then see what his respond...
If he feel sick about "gay",then i think better you don't tell him...
But if he can accept this,then i think maybe you can get a chance..maybe!! Just maybe!!
anyway,i really hope that you can find you true love...
and i also care about you,can reply me after you make your decisions?my e-mail address:fuji_hitsugaya_yukimura_souji@yahoo.com
(my English not very well,no no no,is very bad...sorry...)
2006-09-24 15:35:10 · answer #1 · answered by H.Ya_souji 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be hard for him to hear if he doesnt think of you this way. Maybe you could ask him what he thinks about homesexuals and try to get a gage on his thoughts from there. Dont put him in an uncomortable situation you want to be his friend still even if hes not interested in anything more.
2006-09-24 22:00:13 · answer #2 · answered by Christina C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would not be a good idea to tell him at your age. Not in high school, and especially not a football player.
You have a tough decision to make about coming out in high school. Just remember how cruel people can be.
2006-09-24 22:04:39 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, you need to talk to him. I know, it may be a hard thing to do honey, but you have to. By your implications, you are in the closet. He may not be gay, and he may ruin your reputation or whatever, but it may be time to come out of the closet if your going to risk it for him. I wish you the best of luck, my dear.
2006-09-24 22:19:43 · answer #4 · answered by cadence_lost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you know that he is gay, don't reveal your feelings to him. Kids can be gruel and unless he is gay he may hurt you and make your life in school a living h3ll.
2006-09-24 22:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by lady01love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
without making any slurs on you as a person UNLESS it is general knowledge that you are gay I really would NOT go down this road...........the odds are even if he was interested he would make your life a living hell just to prove to others he was not this way.................I can understand it is hard for you but unless you want you entire school days to be blighted with small minded idiots making your life horrid I would not act on this impulse.
2006-09-24 22:01:16 · answer #6 · answered by candy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you friends?? because if you are I think it would be better to first tell him you are gay but don´t tell him you have feelings for him straight away or you might get really, really hurt.
2006-09-24 22:02:25 · answer #7 · answered by nobodysfool 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should problem find out if he is gay and if he is then tell him how you feel..if not then you are most likely going to ruin a friendship that you could have prevented from ruining
2006-09-24 22:02:10 · answer #8 · answered by k.rista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are asking for big trouble. Give yourself time to grow and decide what your purpose in life is instead of ways to "get off".
2006-09-24 21:59:37 · answer #9 · answered by WDS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell him.... but expect the consequences of everyone finding out :-(
I would just keep that to yourself! You are who you are... but do you want everyone to know? High school is where rumors SPREAD like wildfires!
2006-09-24 22:00:33 · answer #10 · answered by question 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋