girls that are waiting until they get married in order to have sex. or do you think in this day and age it seems ridiculous? i personally am saving myself...just because i think it is a sacred thing and want to give it to one who really deserves it. haha but none of my friends think i will make it
2006-09-24 14:50:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I applaud your wisdom as being well beyond your yrs.Since the 70's the girls" who were the good ones were the most sought after as seen by my friends and me and friends who I have gotten to know that are younger than me(all the way down to 18yr olds') There is an old saying,:"All things come to those ho wait"
2006-09-24 15:06:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you girl! I met my husband when I was 17. I'm now 21, we have a beautiful daughter, and I never regret for one second that I waited for the right guy. I shudder at the thought if I had slept with my ex boyfriend and gotten pregnant! Compared to our friends marriages, we get along a lot better because we dont have all the baggage from previous relationships. And yeah, he totally respected my decision. Another thing you should consider, is not living with anyone before marriage. Divorce rates are 85% higher in couples who lived together before marriage. I think it kind of devalues marriage, because they are already living like it, so getting married means just a ceremony and a piece of paper
2006-09-24 14:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all ridiculous.
First of all a girl has the RIGHT to decide to say NO till marriage.
Besides, if you do it before marriage. What will be so special about the Honey Moon? Sex is the ultimate gift in giving of ones self.
My wife and I dated 4-1/2 years before we got married and we never had sex until our wedding night.
2006-09-24 14:53:58 · answer #3 · answered by Eldude 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i respect it because it is the same choice that i have made. Personally I think it is going to be much more difficult as a man, but either way I feel it is a very responsible thing to do. Not to not have sex, but just to make that kind of decision and stick to it. Good luck.
2006-09-24 15:02:49 · answer #4 · answered by collegeboy978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I find it respectable, personally. I think girls let guys treat them like crap too much anymore and I think too many guys take girls for granted. I understand, sex is fun and all, but it's not something girls should feel pressured into doing. They should say no if they don't want it and stick by it and guys should be more respecting of that. Everything is about sex, money, and power anymore and I don't think it should be like that.
2006-09-24 14:59:55 · answer #5 · answered by bloodlust_evolution 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is great that you are waiting for the right time. Girls like you are few and far between now a days. I think more should wait instead of jumping into bed with every tom, dick , and harry. You hang in there and the right one will find you, and it will be more special for the both of you.
2006-09-24 14:55:50 · answer #6 · answered by kenneth r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some do but some dont care, they just want to screw, some may think your weird and some will like you more because of it, it really depends on the guy and what he is looking for, i think you should just do what makes you happy and dont do things just because your afraid of what everyone else will think, you should set the standards for you, not anybody else, i lost my virginity when i was 15, but i am still going out with him now and i'm almost 18, we love each other very much and i think that our relationship is more meaningful and sex is more meaningful, but i didnt tell myself that i wasnt gonna do it till i knew it was the one or anything, i just got lucky (no pun intended haha)
2006-09-24 14:59:12 · answer #7 · answered by ...here in my garden of magic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your body. If someone else doesn't respect your decision about your body, forget them. You're the only person who'll have to live with your decision for the rest of your life, not your friends or any boyfriends who might look down on you for it.
2006-09-24 15:06:34 · answer #8 · answered by Noes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Want the truth? Here it is.
When younger, the girls that "give" it out are the popular ones.....for obvious reasons. But, when those same boys grow to men and are looking for a wife YOU will be what they want.
That is the truth. Plain and simple.
2006-09-24 14:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by Robert 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I actual have no issues of this one *additionally, do not communicate approximately your ex-boyfriends. We on no account have, nor ever will know or like them, nor will we'd desire to hearken to approximately them. once you do, you're asking your boyfriend to be jealous. you're asking your boyfriend to lose believe. they're area of their lives and prefer it or not, they contributed to them starting to be the guy they're. i'm unable to assert that i might on no account like or know somebody i don't understand through fact they previous have been in a relationship with somebody I care approximately. seems such as you acquire some delivers for dates, it is superb to work obtainable are some people who savour the real gents.
2016-12-15 13:43:05 · answer #10 · answered by starich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋