Well I just started going out with a dude and we are both really shy, so I was wondering how I could like drop some hints for him to hold my hand and stuff like that because I dont want to make the first move.
2006-09-24 14:47:53 · 13 answers · asked by numberseven.withabullet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you could "accidentally" have your hand bump into his while you are walking. The best time to do this though is when you are sitting especially at a movie theatre...if his hand is on the arm rest you can put your hand very close to his and usually nine times out of ten if you get close enough they will work up the courage to grab it. I remember being a shy teenager years ago and I dated shy guys too......
2006-09-24 14:59:16 · answer #1 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats wrong with making the first move hold his hand... i mean you are obviously makeing the first move already by hinting you want him to hold your hand... he is going to take hints as being the first move anyway... just do it
2006-09-24 21:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by big gurls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you want to make the first move? If you are both shy, someone is gonna half to. Maybe walk closer to him and have your hands touch while walking. That might work.
2006-09-24 21:50:12 · answer #3 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holding hands isnt even a move
2006-09-24 21:50:46 · answer #4 · answered by I Hate Liberals 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes, you have to be the first one to make the move....anyways if you are both pretty keen on each other he wont mind you wanting to hold hands with him and all that other stuff....
2006-09-24 21:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by Rugby_Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think my hands are soft? And when he holds them ask" Why don't ya ever want to hold my hand, do they feel to rough? I use lotion on them so that they feel kissing soft just for you
2006-09-24 21:54:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is 2006, girls or women are in, go for whatcha know..make the move,,maybe you can teach him a few things..lol
2006-09-24 21:51:41 · answer #7 · answered by hottoddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friends about it and let them talk to him and if he still doesnt do it just slowly hold him hand. hunny your gonna have to make the first move if you REALLy like him.
2006-09-24 21:50:46 · answer #8 · answered by foxy lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk really close to him and "accidently" brush your hand against his.
2006-09-24 21:50:47 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stare into his eyes, and just make that 'connection' usually he will responed. but you have to move 'a little'
2006-09-24 21:51:19 · answer #10 · answered by Poo for ALL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋