2006-09-24 14:40:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Think back to when you were 15. Were you the same way? I think we all go through that stage. I guess ignore it, tell her you will respond to her only when she talks to you with repect.
2006-09-24 14:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by Fleur de Lis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't sassy back at her or it will be a non ending sassing and yelling session.
It is time to sit down and make a chart of negative behavior and the consquences for that behavior. Make sure the punishment is something you can be consistant with and not be more of a punishment for you rather than her. Sit down with her and go over the rules and consquences. Make her sign them acknowledging she understands them. Then when there is an issue or a conflict you don't need to yell back at her. It is time for her to learn cause and effect. About how one action causes another action. If she mouths back you take her i pod for two days and so on Eventually it won't be worth her trouble to be sassy.
Also, be a bit patient. Your daughter is going through some hormone changes. Another thing to watch for is that if there is a huge change in your child they might be in to some sort of drugs or drinking.
She will grow up and might just be your best friend some day
2006-09-24 21:47:21 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had 15 years to establish respect with her. She clearing sees you as incompetent, not that you are. She needs to treat you like a queen. Yes mam and No mam. If you are a doormat and all kids are beneath their parents than she is the dirt under the doormat and you don't want her to feel that way. She obviously doesn't think you are capable or strong enough to make proper decisions or choices so she is disrespecting you. Read the book, "parenting with love and logic" and "The 5 love languages of teenagers". Maybe she needs 12 hugs a day. That way, she will love you back.
2006-09-24 21:56:21 · answer #3 · answered by WDS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a whole lot you can do. Except take things away you've given her. I mean, if you punish her, do not send her to her bedroom with a TV, PlayStation, computer and cell phone. Start taking way those luxuries and mean it when you punish her. When you start putting your foot down you need to keep it down. Be consistent. She will know you are business. It's got to start somewhere and has to start soon. She's getting older and as much as kids think they hate this, they actually live for boundaries and need them for their protection.
2006-09-24 21:45:23 · answer #4 · answered by Aubrey's mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask yourself, self does she have a tv/sterio in her room, computer, ipod, stylish clothes, social life. Than let her choose, her smart mouth or these things. Can't have both.
2006-09-24 22:06:21 · answer #5 · answered by rikv77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a big bar of soap should do the trick. just shove it in and hold her mouth shut.
2006-09-24 21:43:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
beat her with a belt
not to hard
2006-09-24 22:21:50 · answer #7 · answered by TeddyBear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put her in military school b4 she gets knocked up...
2006-09-24 21:41:51 · answer #8 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋