and if one day he approached 30, and was still a virgin, does it then give him the right to do whatever it takes to get laid?
lke visit escorts and so on?
2006-09-24 14:35:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't feel sorry for anyone for being a virgin. It's a good thing! And I know even lots of women who like that the guys are. It is special in these days. The day he gets a girl he loves he will be glad he is a virgin. It makes it more special.
And I don't think escorts or whores are EVER a good idea! It's so cold.
I think it says a lot of good about a character if they choose to remain virgins themselves.
2006-09-24 14:41:50 · answer #1 · answered by Magnuna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I hope by "and so on" that you don't mean date rape. Just kidding. Sorry -- I know this is a serious matter for you. But why feel so pressured to lose your virginity? No one has to know about it -- that's your business. Be glad that you aren't promiscuous like most guys your age. That can lead to a lot of trouble. When the right person comes into your life, you will no longer be a virgin. Why not concentrate on meeting that person? In the meantime, stay away from "escorts", which are thinly-disguised prostitutes. Where I live, they are illegal. I used to work for a judge who told the criminals that stood before him, these words of wisdom: "Keep your hands in your pocket, your zipper zipped, and your mouth shut, and you'll never see me here again." And while they don't really apply to you at all -- I know you're a decent guy -- you might take note of the zipper part. Unzipped zippers have superseded money as the root of all evil.
2006-09-24 14:46:35 · answer #2 · answered by gldjns 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope! I was 28 years old when I got married and I was still a virgin. And we have a family friend that is 33 and still a virgin. He is waiting until he is married. I think that people that wait for a long time are very strong and should feel proud of them selves.
2006-09-24 14:45:46 · answer #3 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, hah! Someone should throw a party in his honor. And maybe at that party, there might be a girl from the sticks that's still a virgin, and maybe they'll hit it off and start dating. And maybe they'll, well, you know. And hitting 30 without any STDs in this day and age is a miracle - I would strongly suggest he NOT visit a professional to engage in sexual activity. It's rather pointless anyway without love and affection.
2006-09-24 14:41:08 · answer #4 · answered by fearslady 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, maybe hes just waiting until he gets married or falls in love with a person like he suppose to. And no he shouldn't get a escort. His day will come.
2006-09-24 14:43:32 · answer #5 · answered by TheTroubledOne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no shame to be a virgin your probly watitng for miss. right so don't just have sex with anyone just because what other ppl think and don't go to escorts services you never know what they have.
make sure she the one i know you might be getting tired of waiting but believe me its worth the wait..
2006-09-24 14:46:13 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. Rockstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't visit escorts! Meet someone nice who wants a relationship and stuff. You're worth more.
2006-09-24 14:41:33 · answer #7 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i think that maybe you should try getting it by normal means ie; getting a girlfriend but if all else fails why not pay for it! just be safe and take precautions. although wouldnt you like your first time to mean more?
2006-09-24 14:40:00 · answer #8 · answered by star28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO I DONT THINK IT IS BAD TO BE A VIRGIN WITH SO MANY DISEASES AND THINGS OUT HERE I THINK ITS BEST TO STAY A VIRIN UNTIL YOU FIND THAT RIGHT SOMEONE AS IN MARRIAGE BECAUSE WITH SO MANY THINGS OUT HERE IN THE WORLD YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT YOU'LL GET INTO
2006-09-24 14:39:50 · answer #9 · answered by Ms.LuPee ♥♥♥♥ DraKe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until u get married
2006-09-24 14:39:28 · answer #10 · answered by dtb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋