My girlfriend and i broke up but about a month and a week ago and later we got back together (secertly form her parents). she tells me her mom likes me but her mom also doesnt wanna see her daughter get hurt agian. she wants to tell her mom that we are going to go back out, but is afraid that her mom will not support her decision. what should she do.
2006-09-24 14:26:45 · 10 answers · asked by teamo1224430 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her mom...
2006-09-24 14:32:26 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what happened? That makes all the difference. Did you hurt her? Parents love their child and want to do everything is their power to protect them. If her mom feels that you are not a good thing for her or that you are gonna hurt her again, then she probably won't support the decision. You can't make someone support something they disapprove of. Have her tell her mom and if she disapproves, all you can do is show her that she can trust you and that you care for her daughter.
2006-09-24 21:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sneaking around behind her parents' backs is one sure way of further alienating them!
If you and your girlfriend are old enough to have a serious relationship, you're old enough to take responsibility for your actions and stand by your decisions. Being honest with her mother is part of this.
No mother wants to see her child suffer; understandably she may need time to trust you not to repeat your actions.
2006-09-24 21:39:19 · answer #3 · answered by pat z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she really values her mother's opinion and that is great. Her mom,obviously, wants the best for her. She should tell her and assure her that she loves you and that you feel the same way. All you have to do is make her happy. Her mom will gain your trust. You'll see:)
2006-09-24 21:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by alopez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should be honest to her mother. About the hurting situations, usually parents are very serious about sex or drugs so, that's probably what it is. Just talk it out and get to know her family more. Perhaps she should know if she really wants to be with you.
2006-09-24 21:36:07 · answer #5 · answered by soil03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should listen to her parents and stop seeing you. Maybe she can date you by bringing you over for dinner to meet the parents. The more they get to know you, the more they will trust you. You are too young to be having all of this grown up dating crap.
2006-09-24 21:29:33 · answer #6 · answered by WDS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it matter what her mother thinks? How old are you guy? Hopefully you are old the age of 18 and if so it does not matter, unless you are dangerous to her daughter well being.
2006-09-24 21:29:21 · answer #7 · answered by Errolyn27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her mom that she respects what she says and glad she cares but say that she really loves you.
2006-09-24 21:29:22 · answer #8 · answered by Donnya Jett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is your girlfriend? Sounds like she could be a minor.
2006-09-24 21:31:07 · answer #9 · answered by marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to tell her
2006-09-24 21:34:23 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋