A female that has been flirting with me back and forth has asked for me to make time so we can hang out. I made time one evening and she did come over.. it was a nice evening... But over the weekend she asked to come over agian to just kick back. Will on weekend she kept running into things to do, and never called when she said she would. She went out drinking and other things like that. She does text me and says sorry, i promise that I didnt mean to do it, and I do still want to see you. SO what do you think? Does she have someone else in her life? Or is it just a bad weekend for me to see her?
2006-09-24 14:25:40 · 13 answers · asked by duh..... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldnt wait again and find someone else...
2006-09-24 14:35:07 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seems like she has someone else in her life, try not to act like ur so into her but kinda give her a hint that she is like the one for you. and since u sounded like u got stood up, maybe she was seeing someone else or maybe something happened to her family or friends that she needed some time alone but she didn't let u know because she didnt want to worry u. its ok, forget about it, just pretend nothing happened, its ok, next time, tell her to set up a time so that way she will definetely go
2006-09-24 21:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by Cecilia ♡ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there is someone elose but if she says she still wants to hang out with you then she must still feel something. Even if there is another guy in her life dont give up on her show her that you care.
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2006-09-24 21:31:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's messing with you. Toy right back. Like some of the other answers said, act like it's no big deal and don't act so crazy to see her. If you play your cards right, she'll be chasing you instead of the other way around.
2006-09-24 21:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound very trustworthy to me but if you really like her give her another chance. If she does that again please don't give her another chance because that is just the way she is and it isn't right. She would probably never change in that way. Good Luck
Remember there are alot of other women out there, alot of good women.
2006-09-24 21:29:24 · answer #5 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's messing you around to me. Some women get a kick out of that kind of attention - in my humble experience anyway.
2006-09-24 21:28:07 · answer #6 · answered by Snowth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that if you truly like this girl you should talk to her about your feelings about that weekend tell her you felt like she was just blowing you off. tell her you want to know what she wants out of you is she just wanting friends with benefits or does she just want to be friends or does she want to be in a relationship with you i think you should just be bold and honest with her and that you expect honesty from her.
2006-09-24 21:32:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she will see you when she doesn't have other plans and doen't see you when she has other things to do.
Or, maybe she is just a flake and can't be consistant. Or maybe she is just a sweetheart and you need to give her a chance.
2006-09-24 21:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you can tell how much you really mean to a person by the amount of time they make you wait. IWOULD SAY THAT YOU DON"T REALLY COUNT VERY HIGH IN HER BOOKS - NO MATTER WHAT SHE SAYS AFTER THE FACT.
2006-09-24 21:29:43 · answer #9 · answered by nidan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe it was just a bad weekend for her, stop worrying, i'm sure she had things to do and many time we think that we can fit everything in one day, but sometimes we cant...don't fret, try to hang out again
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2006-09-24 21:28:40 · answer #10 · answered by absoluteao 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋