with your child's father that was suppose to show up to see your daughter and hasn't called in 2 days? How do you deal with him? Without cursing him out?
2006-09-24 14:24:30 · 10 answers · asked by Ain't my baby gorgeous 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
you encourage him to see his daughter.. thats all you can do. Dont get mad, dont get nasty, dont discourage him! the more aggresive you are about the topic the more you will alienate him. He might be a jerk, but he might also have issues he is going through, maybe he doesnt feel like he will be a good dad, or maybe he is scared.. Men are not as tough as we think they are sometimes. You have to just support him in having a good relationship with his daughter, trust me this will be the best for your daughter and for the years of frustration ahead of you if he doesnt.
2006-09-24 14:29:18 · answer #1 · answered by minx 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seriously, been there done that. I found the best thing I could do was to not force him to see him. It was bad for everyone in the situation to force visitation, especially the child (dosen't matter how old they are either, they can sense things).
Let it go, as hard as it is to do. Curse him out if you want, but let him know that you are not going to force this on him anymore, either he is a part of her life or not- it is his choice. Then, if he opts out, then trust me, you are all better off without such an inconsiderate selfish person in your lives.
2006-09-25 00:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by jbmiller06 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont curse, dont chase after him, make him pay child support. Move on with ur life, take care of your kid. Get a good job and make your kid happy. Thats all that matters. Depend on yourself and not others. And when your ready meet a new guy who u can trust and love, make sure he has a job, car, and doesnt live with his parents. We women are providing and careing for our families on our own these days.
2006-09-24 22:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by nicky l 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Pissing YOU off is his goal and it worked. You can make him pay child support but you can't make him do anything else.
It hurts you little girl. You may or may not see it, but it does. The best thing you can do is be there for her when he's a schmuck.
NEVER cut him down in front of her. It makes you look just as bad as him.
2006-09-24 21:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by Jim C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
serously just give up on him the best things for your child is not to have a shitty part time dad besides you really shouldnt care
if he promised who cares you have a gorgous baby
dont even curse him out some guys just dont grow up
2006-09-24 23:50:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he doesnt call or doesnt show up wit out tellin u that he cant then he wont get 2 see her
2006-09-24 21:35:39 · answer #6 · answered by Need help!!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him that she needs him and you don't want her to grow up upset at him because he makes false promises
And when she gets older I would not tell her unless he is at the door my Friend always made this mistake... it really breaks their heart..
Just be there for her and never put him down in front of her or she could blame you for it..
good luck
2006-09-24 21:31:55 · answer #7 · answered by I hear ya 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell him how I feel. The truth always works for the best!!!
Good luck
2006-09-24 21:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by Chi_Indy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By telling him how it makes you feel. Don't be afraid to confront him about it... us guys can be strange sometimes ;)
2006-09-24 21:26:54 · answer #9 · answered by Harsh Noise Wall 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
through the court.
2006-09-24 21:32:28 · answer #10 · answered by withallthesethings 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋