Is a cheater always a cheater or can a person change for the better?

Answer 1

Hmmmm...I am usually of the belief that "Seasons change, not people." People are full of potential however, and I think that when someone "changes" they are merely tapping into the potential they already had. So if you think that this person has the potential to be faithful in a relationship then go ahead and give it a try. If you don't, do not feel guilty for not giving the person another chance after all second chances are a courtesy, not a right.

Answer 2

well...i should be like everybody else and say that a cheater is always a cheater. But thats not the case for me, i believe that a person is only going to change if he or she feels the desire to and deeply in love with a person. No one can make that person change except for themselves

Answer 3

I believe that people can and do change everyday......I think it's very narrow minded to say that cheaters always cheat...it's like saying a recovering alcoholic will drink again, or a recovering addict will use again..........you have to look at the bigger picture. So I can get out of bed everyday and face the world I have to believe that most people are good and the ones that aren't can be. What a sad world this would be if every mistake we have ever made, branded us for life like that.............people can change....DEFINITELY!

Answer 4

For some people they can change but for majority a cheater is always a cheater.. I think if they really want to chnage they will unless they won't

Answer 5

You know what? I haven't been able to prove this right or wrong. But I guess it just has to do behind the person's reason to change. Usually when the change is made for someone else, it's never a good thing...(which applies to anything). But when it's done for themselves cause they realize what this behavior does? They can choose to change for good. I guess you'd have to go on a quest to find out those who were like that and decided to change. But usually they're like that in the beginning because they've got no self control. And if that's the case, then temptation can strike again, and guys are more supceptible to give in.

Answer 6

I believe if a person has it in them to cheat once, then they always will be able to cheat again. But it doesn't mean that they can't stay faithful, they should just work harder for it. Be aware of what made them cheat in the first place, and see the danger signs and not let it happen again.

I do think it's like alcoholics. They too CAN successfully never touch a drink again if they got the strength.

Answer 7

I am 36yrs old..and in all my years it has proven true...
Once a Cheater.. Always A Cheater!
Sorry...you Take Care!

Answer 8

I used to be and I changed! I'm not married to the guy I cheated on, though. The guy I cheated on cheated on me, too, and didn't pay much attention to me. I had a girl calling the house and he would talk to her while I was home. I know, not really an excuse, but that's why I didn't feel like being faithful. That was before I knew the Lord, though. He's definitely helped me have more self-respect.

Answer 9

a cheater is a cheater Some just can not help themselfs

Answer 10

i hate admitting this but i have cheated once before and it was the worst thing i could have ever done and i regret it 100%. I changed for the better, been dating this guy for almost 7 months and never even thought about cheating.