I still love my ex-boyfriend who broke up with me about two months from now. Just recently, Ive texted him, asking him how he's doing and if we could grab some pizza if hes doing nothing. I acted like I was just a friend wanting to get together, since he said that we could still be friends, but deep inside, I was squirming because I badly wanted to see him. I invited him out twice but unfortunately, he had some matters to attend to on that date. Yesterday, he texted me, asking what time Id go back home tomorrow, because it was only his free time. But 10:00 was too late, so i turned him down and said that maybe we could go out on the weekend instead. Everything was okay...and at the end I told him that I hope that we could meet up this coming weekend because I also missed his presence..which he only texted OK with a smile. I still love him and I hope that when we meet up I could really tell if he still sees a chance to work out things between us...But how do i tell?
2006-09-24 14:07:51 · 3 answers · asked by hashbrownies 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He broke up with you; since then he's turned you down twice and then tried to get together once really late. (Good for you for turning him down!) When he communicates with you it's by texting (he can't even manage a telephone call?).
I hate to say this, but I think that "he's just not that into you" (to borrow the phrase from the guy who wrote a book on this and has been on Oprah several times).
It's hard, I know, when you love someone, to accept that it's over, especially when he's the one who has left. When ex-boyfriends say they just want to be friends, it almost always means that they're too polite (or too chicken) to make a clean break. Maybe sometime in the far distant future, it may be possible to be friends. But right now, you're very raw and, honestly, he doesn't seem interested (or he'd be with you).
Getting together for pizza "if he's doing nothing", otherwise inviting him out and looking for signs that he still wants to hook up are all prolonging your pain.
Bruised and broken hearts take time to heal. Surround yourself with family and dear friends who will love and nurture you through this. Throw yourself into some sort of activity to get your mind off him as much as possible.
Good luck!
2006-09-24 14:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by pat z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem im madly in love with my ex. we try to hang out but there always seems to be a complication... we tlkd on the phone and it seemed lyk he was hinting he still loved me to but it was hard to tell... just ask him or tlk to him about it he may be feeling the same thing u are but u are both to shy to asy something to eachother. just have faith and keep ur head up everything will work out for the best
2006-09-24 14:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by Jamie R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will feel sorry and he will show it all over his face and show more interest in your hanging out with him and so far u have seen 1 of them.
2006-09-24 14:14:31 · answer #3 · answered by nick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋