ok me and my boyfriend have been goin out for about 8 months and after about 4 months i had to kiss him cuz he was really shy to make the move. but now its been 8months and hes to shy to like make out and my friends all say for me to make the move again and make out wit him but im not sure if i should or not. or if i should wait for him to do it.
2006-09-24 13:59:01 · 12 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's your boyfriend right? So if you want to get busy with him and he's just to scared to make a move, then it's up to you. Or you can keep waiting.
2006-09-24 14:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold yer horses girly!! 8 months and you're still going out with him. You guys must have a lot in common or really enjoy being with eachother. So I'd say keep it going that way. Making out and sex are not going to make your relationship better. It's a perk to a solid relationship. And depending on your age, if your still in highschool or even in college maybe waiting isn't such a bad idea. He may be shy but he is showing great restraint and respect for you by not jumping your bones.
2006-09-24 21:12:38 · answer #2 · answered by llbm3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you want to be single for the rest of your life then wait for him. otherwise, make the move. and why don't you talk to him about it and that you're not comfortable how you have to do everything for the relationship maybe he'd realize. i'm a shy person too, but i'm a girl..so the guy would always make the move.! i feel so lucky.
2006-09-24 21:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by ilovedotsx3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to make out with him, go ahead and make the first move. He may even be waiting for you to initiate it.
2006-09-24 21:01:32 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion, your boyfriend either respects you or he is inexperience and doesn't want to create a bad impression. converse with him and assure him that it is just him. oh! you can make the move sumbaddy has got to make a move.. guide him throughout the making out IF he is still lost and YOU will Org oops be happy
2006-09-24 21:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by Jermaine g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it chica... If a guys right for me, I'm not about to wait 4-8 months for a kiss!
2006-09-24 21:00:46 · answer #6 · answered by Max 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah go ahead and give him the works on making out, but work in slowly. don't just go "GONE WILD" on him or he might freak out.
just give him a few kisses and work up to a little more.
2006-09-24 21:02:58 · answer #7 · answered by quiksilver8676 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it. Showing him your up for it and will do it may open him up a little bit. . . Try it, and possible talk to him about his shyness and how it frustrates you.
2006-09-24 21:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by Matt H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a boob.
whats he waiting for?
geez. most guys would want to bone u by now.
and he aint even kissed u yet?
jeez louis.
2006-09-24 21:00:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should talk about it. and dont do anything that might make him uncomfortable. he may not be sure on what to do, so just talk to him openly.
2006-09-24 21:13:03 · answer #10 · answered by Kumari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋