I tried having sex with my boyfriend and it did hurt like it is supposed to but it doesnt ever feel any good. I mean like is ther a certain thing we are missing or forgetting to do? It is just really not working the longest we tried was 45minutes thinking it was going to work by then because people can orgasm in like 8minutes. Help please.
2006-09-24 13:57:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lubrication and lots of foreplay........
2006-09-24 14:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first let him finger u to loosen u up a little. then try it but its not going to work the first time all the time so try that constantly till i gets better if u have to do it in your alone time when its just u around to help u along. trust me I've had experience in this area.
2006-09-24 14:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by Ben S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have tried several times and it still hurts, you should see a doctor. The most important thing to remember is to relax.
2006-09-24 14:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? if you're under 18, can't talk to you about sex. You need to talk to your mommy. Neither of you know what the h*ll you're doing. You're going to get pregnant and you won't even enjoy the experience.
2006-09-24 14:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um sweetie i think there just ain't no connection intimately...or maybe you guys arn't openig up to eachother...or thinking too hard about it..jus do it and then you'll feel it...if that **** don't work maybe his **** is too small and he don't know how to work it...**** find something else cause sex is a big part in a relationship..wen the time is right...
2006-09-24 14:33:20 · answer #5 · answered by brandy baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu need to shop around for better sex. It's probly your boyfriend not reaching yur hot spots.
2006-09-24 14:00:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consult a sex manual or stop having sex since it isn't working for either of you.
2006-09-24 15:53:31 · answer #7 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow...
Use lubricant if you need to..
Tell him what to do to get you excited..
Show him how to make you have an orgasm...
Masburbate for him...
2006-09-24 13:59:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow. Well idk if you dont know what you are doing then i think you are too young for sex, or to even be thinking about it. But maybe it wasnt in the right spot. And was he pulling it in and out? think about it, i dont think you are ready, but if you please to, follow those directions.
2006-09-24 13:59:31 · answer #9 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it dont matter.
as long as u 2 did it .dont be like me, a loser virgin at 27.
i hate myself.
anyway, here's a suggestion. use lube.
maybe thats it.
2006-09-24 13:59:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
cuz he doesnt know how to do it maybe u are too smallllllllllll
2006-09-24 13:59:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋