He is EXTREMELY intelligent, experienced in life, good looking and the whole nine yards. It all sounds wonderful but its very intimidating for me because I am so ordinary and I dont know if I am enough for him. Am I not intelligent or enlightening enough for him?! My first thought that came into my head was, "he doesnt seem interested in me. He could have any girl in the world, maybe a well known surgeon and he decided to go out for coffee with me. Why?!"
What should i do??
Stop worrying and let it happen,
or ask him straight up what he thinks of me...
2006-09-24 13:52:50 · 9 answers · asked by confused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are 2 possibilities:
#1 He is a typical man. Doctor or not, he may be using you for what he thinks he can ultimately get...
#2 He really lkes you and doesn't care about anything but the inner you..
Your mission should choose to accept it, is to determine which one it is...
But do me a favor.... don't sell yourself short... you are probably a wonderful person and that should be reason enough for him to be interested. Either way, just take your time and try to read the signs...
But don't ask him what he thinks, that could divulge an insecure woman, which I am sure he wouldn't want if he is really interested.
Good luck!
2006-09-24 14:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why look a gift horse in the mouth? In other words, be happy that he's chosen you for the kind of person you are, and not what you think he wants. He evidently sees something in your character or personality that's lacking in other girls. You shouldn't feel intimidated just because you feel you're not up to his intellectual level. That isn't what he's looking for, apparently. He just wants a nice girl with good character. So relax and enjoy, and don't ask him questions. What happens in the future will answer any questions you have at this time.
2006-09-24 14:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by gldjns 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, you need to step back and look at yourself and figure out why you feel so poorly about YOU. It sounds like you have no self esteem, and that you need to figure that part out first!
Obviously he does not look at you as a woman who lacks intelligence, or he would not be with you. Just because you are not a Dr. yourself, or you are not a rocket scientist, does not make you stupid! You have other qualities that he likes, you need to start liking those in YOU as well!
Dee
2006-09-24 13:57:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sees something in you that maybe you don't see. Enjoy his attention and stop obsessing and second-guessing him...you will screw this up before the relationship even has a chance if you keep this over-analyzing up. You "just started dating" so give in a chance...he's not demanding a lifetime commitment right now, so relax and be yourself
2006-09-24 14:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should stop worrying about it. Obviously this man sees something in you that he likes and is attracted to, don't over analyze it. Enjoy the relationship.
2006-09-24 13:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying,hun! Apparently he likes YOU! Enjoy and GOOD LUCK! Relax and ENJOY! and Count Your Blessings!! God Bless! Take Care now!
2006-09-24 13:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by mrssmokestack003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying and just let it happen. Reading into thing too much is how I am too.
2006-09-24 13:56:45 · answer #7 · answered by jewell2578 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop obsessing and let things happen naturally. And don't let anyone tell you that you aren't good enough for him. We are all equal. hugs
2006-09-24 13:56:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was just coffee...So stop worrying and just let thing go where they may....
2006-09-24 14:07:41 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋