I am almost 16 and just got my first kiss! It was really Bad! He did not know how to kiss at all!I just thought it would be better. has any one else had this problem?
2006-09-24 13:49:37 · 11 answers · asked by Cassandra D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hiii hun <3 omg i love u i just had my first kiss yesterday lollll..anyways since it was bad..
DONT COUNT IT. because its just not worth it!
2006-09-24 13:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry unless the other person isn't willing to work on it. No one kisses exactly the same, but what makes you a good kisser is the ability to adapt to the person you are kissing. Pay attention to the way they kiss and try to match it. Some people are just horrible because they don't pay attention to your tecniques and never will. The best way to fix it though, is if it's a person you could really see yourself having a relationship with you don't want the kisses to be bad forever. So tell them what you don't like. Some guys think that kissing means you have to shove your tongue down a girl's throat. I don't like a lot of tongue so I have to tell them that. Keep in mind first kisses are always akward so you cannot judge them by the first kiss nerves can mess you up and so on.This can also show that they actually like you, someone who is good at getting a girl to mess around would be a smooth kisser. Don't judge on the first kiss but after a few times if it doesn't change then say something. Also I've found that being a control kisser helps basically you take control of the kiss and make them kiss you the way you want them to. Sometimes they like it too. My first kiss sucked too, the guy never got better so I've heard from his current girlfriends. But I've had some first kisses that were bad and then later they got better.
2006-09-24 20:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha. First Kisses Are Always Bad.. But There Will Be Better Ones And You'll Always Remember It.
2006-09-24 20:55:22 · answer #3 · answered by cierra91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my first kiss w/ my last boyfriend was horrible, i thought i was drowning!! he was trying to go french style, but it was more like niagra falls. it was really bad. but after that it was great. the first kiss is always hard b/c everyone has their own rythm and kissing style.
give it time and it will get better (or else the guy u kissed is just a really bad kisser)
2006-09-24 20:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by neverland22 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES! my first kiss with my boyfriend of 1 year was awful! lol. At first it really put me off...but then i decided that he just simply didnt know how to do it well....so i taught him! I had a great time 'teaching' him. At the end of the day....its the heart of a person that matters....you can always teach him the rest!
Good luck : )
2006-09-24 20:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by katieh1981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats kinda sweet that both of you dont know how. but maybe you guys can develop your own kissing style. and if that was your first time, then how do you know he did it wrong? maybe thats the way people kiss and you just dont like it. dont get offended with what im saying. im just giving you advice. maybe its better if you write how he kissed you, even if its hard to describe a kiss.
2006-09-24 20:55:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first kiss was really bad as well. Don't worry, it made every other kiss since then seem utterly fantastic!
2006-09-24 21:19:52 · answer #7 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not everyone it going to kiss in a way that gets ur motor running. a kiss is more about feeling then technique. trust and believe, u will be kissed off ur feet. (just not with this person)
2006-09-24 20:54:12 · answer #8 · answered by BI - Health 1s 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it is your first kiss...how do you know the bad kisser wasn't you? HAHA If I was your mama I would slap you. Uhh...read a book or something. Boys are stinky.
2006-09-24 20:53:15 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first kiss is usually bad hehe!
2006-09-24 21:09:48 · answer #10 · answered by Julie V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋