my babys fathers girlfriend has been writing rude comments about me on her myspace profile.i printed them out and i know theyre about me but they dont say my name anywhere. Hes about to go to court to try and get rights to see our son.is their anyway i can use these comments against them so he wont be able to get rights?
2006-09-24 13:47:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
the thing is she denies that theyre about me
2006-09-24 13:51:22 · update #1
i kinda provoked it by writing things 1st but she has no proof of it. can SHE do anything
2006-09-24 13:52:21 · update #2
I hate to burst your bubble..but this is probably not something you're going to be able to use in court. First of all, even if these things were written about you, and even if you could somehow manage to prove it...it's just talk..it has nothing to do with the fact that unfortunately the father has a right to see his child. My ex husband wrote very dispicable things about me on his myspace, while we were in the middle of a divorce battle. The thing is, the way that your child's father feels about you, and the way his girlfriend feels about you has nothing to do with how they feel about your child, and it has nothing to do with the father having a right to see his child. Even more so, the judge does not care how the girlfriend feels about you. The only way the girlfriend is even an issue is if she lives with the child's father..and even then you would have to have some hard core proof that it would not be good for your child to be around her. It is very rare that a court will completely deny a parent the right to see their child, so unless you have something else other than thoughts and feelings written out by the girlfriend, you're out of luck. It is very hard to prove that a parent is unfit, and whether you like it or not ( I know I didn't/don't like it) the father has a legal right to see his child. I know this is not what you probably want to hear, but I've been there and done that, and I didn't like it either. I just want you to be prepared. In the meantime, ask yourself why you don't want the child's father to have visitation with your child. If it's just because you're mad at him..that's not fair to your child or to the father. If on the other hand, there is good reason why your child should not be around the father or the girlfriend, then you need to get a lawyer...or at least talk to one. Most lawyers will give you a free consultation. They can tell you whether or not you have grounds for asking the court to deny visitation, and what the grounds are. Best of luck to you. As a final thought though, please try to keep in mind that you need to do what is in your CHILD'S best interest.
2006-09-24 14:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. MP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. If she don't use your name, then it won't help. Instead you come off looking like a paranoid fool. However, it you can notate her name and get the court to acknowledge who she is to him, then you might have a chance. See, lets say her name is Genie. The court asks her/him if that is her pen name on the site. She's under oath, so she have to answer to the truth or she'll face perjury. If she acknowledges that it is she, then the court can proceed to put it in the order that he nor her can solicit nor make any negative public comments about you or they will face punishment from the court. I had it written in my divorce decree. But, the message went both ways. i had to abide by it as well. BTW< if you are the primary caretaker, a good mother, take care of your child and provide for him/her, then you don't have to worry about what he's fighting for. The courts will side with you and he'll just get visitng rights, which is his lawful right to have, even supervised.
ALSO, Leave them alone. Focus on taking care of your child. She nor he is worth losing your child. Remain mature for the child's sake.
2006-09-24 13:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by hellokittyt012263 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is something in the comments that is directly towards you or about you that you can prove in court than yes you have a chance. you can also put them in front of the judge and say this your Honor i believe that the fathers girlfriend being around our child would not be in our child's best interest. i do believe that there are many reasons that she is saying these things and the main reason is that she is scared not only are you in your ex's life but you have the best gift in the world and that is your child and she don't have that she is just trying to hurt you because she is jealous that she don't have what you do.
2006-09-24 14:43:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to burst your bubble, unless you have a darn good lawyer, unless you have more proof, you might be in for a let down. my daughter has to let her baby go when the "father" has no baby bed, high chair car seat and living with his grandparents, mother in a 2 or 3 bedroom. how that for the law. . more then likely a judge will allowed the parent, male or female the right to see the child unless you have HARD evidence the child will be in danger. good luck
2006-09-24 14:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by mamma bird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 08:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My god, grow the hell up and stop acting like your 8 years old. Your baby deserves better than a mother who acts like a vindictive idiot.
2006-09-24 15:25:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! say i no that his girlfriend wrote these about me.... theres no doubt about it! tell the judge to put her on the stand and she HAS to tell the truth! tell your lawyer to ask if they were about u! if they are the judge should see that the girlfriend isnt fit to be seeing the kid and only the father should!
2006-09-24 13:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by hunny_boo_boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that since your name is not mentioned, there is nothing that you can do. You could consult a lawyer about it. Best of luck to you.
2006-09-24 14:07:26 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well at court ask her " then who did you right them about" she wont know what to say!!
2006-09-24 14:00:35 · answer #9 · answered by Double A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, its worth a try, and i would find somebody to kick her a ss
2006-09-24 13:51:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋