I'm pretty and fashionable and all, but I'm also kinda shy and focused on getting good grades. But is being a few months from being 14 pretty long to never have a bf?
2006-09-24 13:42:36 · 43 answers · asked by Jaden 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
13 years old and you're worried about not having a boyfriend yet?!? Keep your head in your books and away from boys. You're too young!
2006-09-24 13:56:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fashionable? Do 13 year olds actually use that term?
Ok you are 13, almost 14! Is it strange that you never had a b/f? Nope! Rather normal actually. Most boys don't mature at the same rate as girls. Once the 13-14 year old boys start to think about girls, the girls usually realize that they are not too bright and shift thier interest to older boys, who are not always interested in girls your age... so yes it's very normal to be without a b/f. But I know things will change soon for you.... and there will be more boys then you could have imagined.... then you get to choose. Most often 14-15 is when you start dating anyway.... Don't be in a hurry to grow up..... things will happen in good time.
2006-09-24 13:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
psh...girl its not that bad i'm 13 too and i've only had online bfs cuz all the guys in my school is stuck up and i'm pretty too and everything but i'm sometimes shy and focused on getting good grades 2 but i think what we do is we wait until we know we have someone who loves us and wants to be with us and not something that their friends dared them to go out with us but don't feel bad these plenty of girls like us out there we just have more important things going on than having a bf.
2006-09-24 13:47:09 · answer #3 · answered by coolluci2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't u even worry about not having a bf study your school work and stay focused and beleive me you will have plenty of time for bf. Don't even worry about all the peer pressures from other girls your age. you don't want to lose your identity before you turn 20
2006-09-24 13:45:51 · answer #4 · answered by ttee1113 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. I'm not shy to admit that I was pretty hot to trot back in the day and didn't have my first boyfriend till I was 16. Focus on those grades...boyfriends are overrated.
2006-09-24 13:44:43 · answer #5 · answered by Mara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's NOT bad! Don't rush into dating because everyone else is. If you focus on your studies, you'll be successful and it'll be worth not having a boy friend. You'll get a boy friend when the time is right and when you find someone right for you! Keep your head up and do what your heart tells you!
2006-09-24 13:47:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds strikingly similar to me. I am almost fourteen, never having been in any type of relationship. I am the studious one who is friends with all of the boys, yet in no real hurry to go from study buddy to more than. In my opinion, this is perfectly normal, so I wouldn't worry. We have the rest of our lives to occupy ourselves with such things, so just enjoy the current simplicities, even when all of your friends have already had numerous boyfriends. Good luck, and as I said, don't worry!
2006-09-24 13:50:50 · answer #7 · answered by Kollie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. Forget the boys right now and stay focused on your grades. No it's not bad.
2006-09-24 13:51:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to have a boyfriend? They do not define you as a person. Enjoy your friends , school, and especially your independence.
When a boy comes around and acts interested, get to know him first before you make a commitment to be "a couple."
Good Luck!
2006-09-24 13:47:10 · answer #9 · answered by *ELiZaH* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you just normal. There is no hurry for you to get a B/F. your friends are probably jealous that you're not just some ho that a bunch of guys have gone out with. I congratulate you for being a good girl. I wish my son could be your friend. he's a good boy too, hoping to save himself for his wife.
2006-09-24 13:46:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋