My son is 27 months and only says a few small words. I am looking for games and things I can do to help him learn to talk. I read to him and encourage him to say different words, but it doesn't seem to be helping. Any ideas?
2006-09-24 13:40:10 · 23 answers · asked by gizbit76 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
Take him to be evaluated for hearing and speech through your local public school district. The earlier you catch speech delays the easier to treat. Between age 18 mths and 24 mths there is a window that the child should have made major growth in speech. You are right to be concerned your child should be speaking at least 50 words by now. Here are some more milestones cut and pasted-
"Your child will be able to say 4-6 words (other than mama/dada and names of family members or pets) by 11-20 months.
He should be able to follow a two step command without a gesture by 14-21 months.
By 16-20 months your child should be able to tell two wants using single words (juice, milk, more, etc.).
He should be able to point to one or more body parts by 14-18 months, and this will increase to 6 body parts by 22 months.
Two word combinations or sentences are used by 18-22 months and can include phrases like 'Want milk', 'More juice', etc."
2006-09-24 15:42:45 · answer #1 · answered by funschooling m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, if you are really worried you should see a pediatrician to get real facts. Make sure that there isn't some simple answer such as small hearing loss or other physical reason why your child has not spoken as much as you would expect.
Second, babies learn by example so if you can talk to him/her constantly or as much as possible that will help. As adults its not acceptable to talk alot so you get out of the habit and when children come along its something you really need to work on to overcome. I found that when I realized how little I spoke around my kids that I was shocked. You can talk to your baby about everything and explain what you are doing while you are taking baths, changing, combing hair, or feeding. Its better not to use "baby talk" because that doesn't help them hear how you are pronouncing words or tone.
Please keep in mind that kids learn at different speeds and sometimes it just takes longer. And even though your child may not speak right away and hearing you speak more never fear, they are like sponges and hopefully it will come sooner rather than later.
2006-09-24 20:51:45 · answer #2 · answered by r_k_winters 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son was only saying a few things at that age and then all of a sudden exploded with words and small sentences and now we can't shut him up! lol He's now 30 months old. Being exposed to other children helps tremendously. I wouldn't worry about him not talking until he's closer to 3, then maybe talk to the doc about it. My friend has a little one that wouldn't talk until well after 3 yrs old, and she eventually had to get him to an occupational therapist at the local school district. I personally would just wait and see how he is in the next few months. You will most probably be pleasantly surprised at how he changes in that time.
2006-09-24 21:03:17 · answer #3 · answered by Emjay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Has your son had a lot of ear problems? Most of the time that is the reason(earaches etc...) Try sign language..It really helps and it is never to late to teach. I have a 17 month old that never stops talking(sometimes wish she would..lol) I started her out with sign language from the time she was a newborn and I think that helped alot. I was better then having her point a things and scream! Just keep on encouraging him, he will talk when he is ready! If you still have concerns talk to your Dr. they should be able to recomened somebody to help you! Good Luck
2006-09-24 22:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by Jesabel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter was 18 months and hardly saying anything and I took her to the pediatrician and he recommended speech therapy. I was amazing how much it helped. She is almost 3 now and can say just about every word that she hears. (this is not always a good thing) But get his hearing checked, and trust your instincts. If you really think something is wrong, get a second opinion. But if not, then just keep up the reading and conversations. My grandma didn't talk until she was 4.
2006-09-24 20:52:00 · answer #5 · answered by Goldylocks 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I recently bought my son some cds to help him with his speech. They are called Speechercise cds. He loves them! We have to listen to them every time we get into the vehicle, but I don't mind b/c they seem to be helping him. They have little mouth exercises and then have you say words in silly ways. It's a good idea though. I got mine at the local mall at a store with learning toys and games. I would ask your doctor also what they think. It never hurts to consult a physician on things like this.
(I found a link for the cds http://www.twinsisters.com/onlinecatalog/songsthatteach/earlychildhood2/2320.htm )
Best of luck!
2006-09-24 20:53:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was going to suggest exactly what "I hear ya" suggested. Take him to day care for a couple hours a day, or find a play group with kids his age. Kids learn SOO much from other kids. He'll be talking in no time. I have a friend who is going through the same thing, but her husband refuses to send their son to day care even for a couple of hours. He'll be 3 in January and doesn't have much of a vocabulary.
2006-09-24 20:53:11 · answer #7 · answered by jenpeden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact your state's developmental services agency, you can get their phone number from your pediatrician. They will test him to see if he has a problem. If he needs speech therapy they will work with him.
Lots of children are learning sign language as infants these days you might want to look into that. It will give him a way to communicate other than pointing and grunting until he does start talking.
check out this website www.mybabycantalk.com
2006-09-24 20:56:29 · answer #8 · answered by ebosgramma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your on the right track. You should have him watch educational children movies such as Dora the Explorer, Blues Clues, and Go Diego Go. I recommend these because the characters in the movie ask your child questions, that have them eager to respond. It as helps them with ethusiasm, and helps them try to learn different languages.And I hope that this strategy works, Good Luck!
2006-09-24 20:57:00 · answer #9 · answered by T-T from the D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing a great job already, he will talk in time, there is no hurry to when and how they will talk. Believe me, the day will come when you will wish he was back at this stage because he will be talking and whining your ear off! :-)
Just keep up the good work and all will be well, I promise.
Good luck to you.
2006-09-24 20:42:56 · answer #10 · answered by sistermoon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋