Well we just recently had sex and his parents found out and want to sit me down and talk to us about it. They are trying to stop it, but can they? What should i do?
2006-09-24 13:37:34 · 10 answers · asked by aricalyn10<3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sit down with them as they wish(out of respect-they are his parents) and listen to what they have to say. Even though they are parents they are experienced people(hence their son) and you might not believe it but they want what is best for their son- the same as you want for your boyfriend. Having an open ear and mind is good at times like these. You and your boyfriend should discuss this personally to. Good luck sweetie!
2006-09-24 13:44:31 · answer #1 · answered by dodlydink 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your bf say about it? Was he a virgin? How did they find out? Some people flaunt it and that is just wrong. The only way they can stop it is if they have influence over their son. Premarital sex may be common but it still is not the moral thing to do. Now days men and woman are acting like those pagans that worship the statue and were screwing around while the guy was up on the mountain to get the 10 commandments. You know why you shouldn't mess around? One reason...Little babies. I can't believe how many women get "accidentally" pregnant. When that happens.... lives are changed forever and not for the best most of the time.
2006-09-25 18:13:50 · answer #2 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how old u r... if you are younger than 18, they can stop you.. they can forbid you to see him, but technically they cannot help it if you disobey them, just sit down with them and listen to what they have to say,.. maybe they will be like my parents and just make sure that you are using protection and no all the risks and everytihing.. and try not to get caught next time.. he he
2006-09-24 20:42:03 · answer #3 · answered by chstarponchild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how old your both are. if you are of age, talk with them and see what they have to say. listen first and then say "thank you for your advice, but we will make our own decisions", but we will keep in mind what you said". also assure then that your are using protection. as least they will think that you are mature enough to take care of business.
2006-09-24 20:45:37 · answer #4 · answered by lolo123392000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? im guessing you are between 13 and 15. if so then they have every right to do so. if not and you are both over 18 then blow them off. they have no legal ground to stand on.
2006-09-24 20:41:34 · answer #5 · answered by paliquin857 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well depends if you liked it continue but if not the just practice till you do
2006-09-24 20:40:04 · answer #6 · answered by jacob_advice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them...
Don't be confrontational, don't be apologetic...
Don't make any promises other than to consider
carefully whatever they ask you to or not to do...
2006-09-24 20:40:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just listen what his parent's want to say!!
2006-09-24 21:45:50 · answer #8 · answered by isaiah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, they cant do anything about it, dont worry, its not like they're gonna kill u or anything, if it what you two want to do, then whatever floats your boat!!! but good luck sweetie
2006-09-24 20:40:58 · answer #9 · answered by *Chelsie* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well just dont go to his house any more..... idk have the talk noone can MAKE you do anything its that you choose to do it.
2006-09-24 20:40:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋