i am taking my ex-girlfriend out to dinner for her birthday and i want to get her a gift cause i still?

Question

care about her. What would be an appropriate gift that would show that but not over do it? Should i even be doing this or no?

Answer 1

You are soo sweet for taking your ex out for her birthday! An appropriate gift would be flowers and a card. I think jewlery might be over doing it because you are already taking her out. I think the flowers and a card or flowers and a small gift will show her that you will care.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Let's start with you last question first. Should you be doing this? What are your intentions? If you still care for her and (probably a lot) and if you are taking her out to dinner and considering buying her a gift she must be an extraordinary woman. A nice gift would be flowers, but that may be over doing it. It depends on your intentions. I get the impression that you want to get back together with her. If you do, do it with class and finesse. Dinner for her birthday is special.

Answer 4

you shouldn't do it if you have a girlfriend at the current time.

But as for a gift, I would suggest something friendly but personal. You do not want it to seem like you are buying her friendship/love. Going this route will only lead to heartbreak, because she will only want you for gifts, never for you. I think you should go to http:www.redenvelope.com and get some ideas. You may want to order from there or just get an idea for something you can get else where.

Answer 5

Don't take her to dinner. Dinner is nice, but not always the right con valence.
The best thing to do is take her to the Animal Park, where you can look at nature and broaden your thoughts to each other in a more directed fashion. The scene will open your hearts to ech other more than just looking at each other at a dinner and complaing because your French Fries are greasy:)

Answer 6

Something little but cute, and dont buy anything that cost/looks like it's worth over $100 dollars. Maybe something like a little teddy bear holding a note that says something about you caring about her still. I dont know about your ex, but that would make me melt! You could also get her jewelry (cheap, little things, not cheap looking though), a gift certificate to a spa, or you could take her to a place that you guys went regularly when you were dating and present her a little something there (that would make it "worth" more). I hope it all works out!

Answer 7

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Answer 8

Hmmmmm, let's see.

Pick out a really nice place, do your research. When you find the right place, go personally and tell them it's a special occasion and you want the best table. Have them show you where you would be sitted that will show them that you really want this night to be "Thy night" ask if you could stop in early and drop off flowers. Leave instruction that you would like the flowers to be placed on her chair, that way when you walk her in and the waiter pulls out her chais she will be surprised and trust me she will trully klnow that you went out of your way to make this a special night!

Answer 9

A cute and free birthday present is a Happy Birthday Singing Dog video, you can send her the link or download the video and send it that way. Will make her smile 100% :)
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Answer 10

A silver bracelet (if she wears them, and wears silver, not gold) necklace, or earrings would be personal, but wouldn't have the significance of a ring. And silver's not terribly expensive, but is still "fine jewelry."
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