my ex boyfriend and i were together for ten and a half months he broke up with me when i told him i was pregnant and got with someone else stralight away it really hurt and i often have dreams about them toghther and i really hate him for what he did to me especially because of the state i am in and now i have to go it alone i also sometimes dream that me him and my child are one big happy family
whay am i dreaming about him ?
2006-09-24 13:23:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
because your dreams are a manifestation of your unconscious desires. you dream that you're all together because even though you've got yourself convinced that you hate him, you really still wish that you were with him. from a psychological standpoint, this desire has to manifest itself somehow, because otherwise it would drive you crazy. your brain decided that the healthiest way for this to happen would be in a dream. that said, you should find someone who actually is man enough to take on what is now someone else's problem.
2006-09-24 13:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was your last sexual partner, right? Even after breaking up with my first "sweetheart" in 1995, and being married to my 9th for over 6 yrs, I STILL have dreams about that guy. Your mind is finding a focus for a fantasy while you sleep. Don't take it too seriously; it's really notht at big a thing...
2006-09-24 20:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by Angela M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's common to dream of an ex-spouse or boyfriend in the first few weeks or months after a painful breakup. Breakups can be traumatic and your unconscious is attempting to help you heal through your dreams.
2006-09-25 22:52:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obviosuly worried about the baby, and think about him often. Your mind is stilll thinkning, even after you go to sleep. Your mind is just processing all the worries you have right now. You must think about him a lot to have dreams, and you want to be stable again if you're dreaming about one happy family.
2006-09-24 20:26:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur sub concious mind & unconscious mind will take time to forget him. actually it gets stored thru ur concious mind, so it 'll take time to understand the truth.
2006-09-24 20:35:18 · answer #5 · answered by anks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you still want to be with him and at the same time you want to kill him!!! But don't do anything rash!!
2006-09-24 20:28:19 · answer #6 · answered by Kayla C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because his life is still glued to ur brain even though its slowly rotting away.
2006-09-24 21:57:16 · answer #7 · answered by al 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur subconsious is thinking about it, even though u may not relize it
2006-09-24 20:25:03 · answer #8 · answered by CrystalRose 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont know, weird **** the human mind
2006-09-24 20:25:38 · answer #9 · answered by Juan Kassoff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its whatever is on your mind at night~!
2006-09-24 20:24:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋