If a girl decided to save her first kiss till she got married.......and she saved her first kiss for her husband because she wanted to ensure him that she would be loyal to him, as she was the years before she married him.....as in not giving other guys her kisses that belonged to her future husband?..........Do you find that pathetic?.....or do you find it kinda cute in an old fashioned kinda way?
2006-09-24 13:00:07 · 37 answers · asked by Bethyboo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay yeah pathetic.....i kno!!!.....but in a way its cute....okay thats just me:)....
2006-09-24 13:03:29 · update #1
Why save it for a future husband? What if that marriage turn bad, it's just like saving it for nothing.
2006-09-24 13:06:44 · answer #1 · answered by OnThe36th 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty extreme, but your not the first one to do it. I read a story on Billy Graham and he saved his kisses and self for his wife. Already worried about what your future husband thinks of you? Makes me think you have low self-esteem. Why not worry more about what you want in a future spouse rather than obsessing on what others will think of you. Don't wrap your whole idea of who you are with how many guys you have kissed or whatever but concentrate on other things in life cause believe me theres a lot bigger issues. If a guy is going to marry you I hope he already knows that you are a loyal person based on more important issues than your past physical encounters. Kissing someone or even having sex with someone does not make you a bad person it means you have made some personal choices that you may or may not feel comfortable with later. Make sure you make your choices for your life and most importantly, be true to yourself. If you make what you consider a mistake, pick yourself up, dust yourself off and face another day it is not the end of the world. All through your life you will learn lessons. You will make mistakes, nooone is perfect. Best Wishes.
2006-09-24 13:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I think most of these people who save themselves are just not getting any. Out of the fourty percent who say they will save themselves, twenty percent actually do, ten percent never get the opportunity, and the other ten percent are just that perfect. But the kissing thing is obviously because of severe shyness or social inadequecy. Or the person is just pathetic and hopelessly unable to get any. Sorry. But I guess if someone was really that old-fashioned it would be cute, but then you would have about half the experiences people always remember and you have nothing to compare it to and it wont seem so great.
2006-09-24 13:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a nice idea and certainly not bad if thats what someone does. Personally, experience is important. Not to say you need to be with alot of differe nt people,but explore a bit. Her future husband certainly isnt saving anything for his future bride. I think its a waste of good years. Live your life as it ids now. Be cautious and have self respect. Thos first loves can be very fun times. The first kiss is nervewracking,when we marry we should be over the whole nervouse thing. Like how we look,how we'll do.
2006-09-24 13:04:58 · answer #4 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She would not be a good kisser thats for sure. Plus she wouldn't have a boyfriend for very long because she won't kiss them.
What about this, instead of ever knowing or touching a guy. She waits tell shes 20 something and then marries a guy without knowing or talking to him. She can say she never gave any love, affection to anyone but him.
2006-09-24 13:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know kisses are for special occasion or special people but hold out for a kiss that long is kind of pathetic.
It does show loyalty to your future husband. But it is not as the same as saving yourself sexual for your husband.
I think it kind of clique. That all depends on what kind of kiss your talking about. Does it mean that a kiss on the cheek would be cheating on your future husband.
2006-09-24 13:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by de_dark_angel71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pathetic
2006-09-24 13:02:05 · answer #7 · answered by bebeeangeldust 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the gesture in itself is cute in an old fashioned way, but what if you find that after getting married you save your first kiss for your husband and find out that he is a lousy kisser?
2006-09-24 13:04:32 · answer #8 · answered by cabjr1961 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I guess it would be good to know your the only one but, at the same time, it kinda indicates that she doesn't have much interest in guys physically, and it's going to be hard to develop a relationship with a guy to the point he wants to marry you if you won't ever kiss him...I think not ever kissing a guy until your married is a bit extreme...it's kind of pathetic....kisses are great!
2006-09-24 13:07:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, Pretty Pathetic
2006-09-24 13:01:28 · answer #10 · answered by mm4everluved 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋