How do you get over an Ex when their already over you?

Question

I go to school with an ex boyfriend of mine. We have every class with each other b/c of our majors.
Now I pray all the time to have my feelings that I once had for him to go away and it seems as if until I get into a relationship my self I'm going to always have feelings for him. There was party the other day, he asked my friend where I was. I went over to his home, he has roommates that I went to go see. I was there for a while and then he acted like he didn't want me there. When Ieft out his room his slammed the door behind me. We aren't friends right now. I just dont know what to think. I just want my feelings to go away. I dont know what to do?

Answer 1

the best thing to do is to throw away anything that reminds you of him and if you can avoid him do so if he doesnt want you around and slams the door behind you guess what tell him off let him know just because you see i'm not with someone doesnt mean you have to act like a jackass say i may still have feelings for you but at the rate you going it will leave me just as it came and then do things for yourself like go to the movies get your nails done do things for yourself use this time to reflect and think about what didnt work in the relationship with your ex so you know what to look for if there's a problem when you get into a next relationship and the best thing to do is stop thinking about him try to do other things that will take your mind off of him just give yourself time to heal when you are ready to let go your heart will and dont worry there's someone out there for you love cant be rushed and neitheir getting rid of feelings you dont want you have to make the decision to move and that is when you are going to move on with someone who will love and respect you and good luck I hope you get your wish because he seems like a jerk

Answer 2

I had a boyfriend in high school/college that I kept breaking up and making up with for 7 years. I do not know if you will or should go back with him, but your questions is to get over him since he is already over you.

First of all, his is not over you. Slamming the door and asking where you are are signs that he is not entirely over you. Having said that, if you want to get over him, stay away from his roommates for a while.. at least at their home. You wil only invite trouble. Be strong and find a lot of interesting things to do and people to be around. When you think of him, visualize him in a monkey suit. Let him sort out his fickle feelings and if and when he returns, he will come back to a more confident and independent woman.

Time has a way of healing these things. Hang in there, babe.

Answer 3

I know it is hard but you have to try to move on, I was seeing a guy before i got married and we worked together, we dated for 18 months and we spent 24/7 together. when we split up we still slept together for a few months and then all of a sudden he met someone new and never spoke to me again, i wont lie to you it took me months to get over hi m and i would think of him all the time, all day long i would hope that he would phone, in the end i had to leave my job as i couldnt stand seeing him any mone. I know where you are coming from and i know the pain you are feeling, but i promise you that there is a light at the end of the tunnel and it is true time is a great healer, now when i look back i still get the same pang of hurt but its nothing like what it was like at the time. Just be strong and give yourself time to heal your broken heart. Good luck.

Answer 4

You need to date someone else or get a hobby that consumes your time. You need to take your mind off of the problems that are worrying you. If the two of you broke up there is a reason for it and that is also what you have to think about. Really are you two that great for each other. If you were you two would be together. So really just move on and get over it. Nothing really else to it, just take your mind off of it and keep yourself busy.

Answer 5

Stop torturing yourself. Nothing will make the emotions go away but time. In the meantime you spending time with him, dwelling over him, and hanging onto hope is only allowing the emotional rollercoaster to continue. Find something new to do or something you like but gave up when you were with him. In no time you'll find the pain starting to disappate.

Answer 6

You can always shop around, I.m sure there are many other people that you can talk to with the same problem. I am a male with the same problem, I have a couple women that I have been over for some time but they aren't over me. You have to go on with your life and don't think about it anymore.

Answer 7

well being drop dead gorgeous is the secret, you get the rock hard buns album and the no guts no glory look on your face and turn your lights on. What ever you got that made him want you has to be brought to light. just cause he doesn't want you ,you may be missing the qualities of your assets, power training for stress and beauty will have him walking in to the same door he slammed

Answer 8

Become involved in other things. I would also avoid going to his house, and invite the roommates over to yours or meet somewhere. Don't rush into another relationship until you feel you are ready. If you try to avoid him for a while, it will make it easier to get over him.

Answer 9

that is the crap thing about being so deeply in love, that feeling will only go away with time, it doesnt just disappear like that, the only thing that might make it easier is by being really angry with the other person eventually love will turn to anger then hate and then it will be forgotten in time I can promise you this.

Answer 10

when you give heart and soul to someone, it is tough. my ex is now married and i try to stay clear of her everyway i can. she used me very badly. i was there for her when times were bad then when times turned bad for me, she was not there for me.so, get those classes over with and move on with your life. it does get easier, but it will hurt for a very long time. try to be the better person if you can. i wish you the best. my heart is still broken and it has been a year.