Its the beginning of a new school year and that means a lot of new people. I have met a girl that i like alot. We hang out as much as we can, she comes to my football games i go to her house all the good stuff. Even when we are not together we constatly talk via text messaging or myspace and stuff like that. She knows i like her, and i ahve had some of my friends, and some of her friends too, ask about her feelings towards me. She says she likes me, but doesnt want to be in a relationship at this time. I understand that she broke up with her ex about a month ago, and they had been dating for about half a year. I was there for her wen she was going through that time and she knows that. My question is do i wait this out and hopefully get with her when she is ready, or do i move on and just try to maintain friendship?
2006-09-24 12:38:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't rush off and get another girlfriend right away. Because if you really like her and she sees this, she will think you didn't like her much in the first place. Don't keep biugging her about a relationship, because that is the last thing she needs. Just be a good friend to her, she will respect that so much more. Just give it a little time, when she realizes how much she likes you, you will still be in the picture.
2006-09-24 12:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by collegebusygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Do you think it would work out if the two of you were together? Do you think she wants you to wait it out? I suggest you talk to this girl instead of going through friends. It's a lot easier that way. Do it in person. Watch her expressions and what not and figure out if she really doesn't want to be in a relationship or doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Then make your decision.
2006-09-24 19:44:17 · answer #2 · answered by Heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find someone who is willing to date you as a boyfriend now. This girl is interested in you, but she probably is into another guy, and is keeping you on the bench just in case. So do the same thing to her. Keep her as a friend, and date someone else. If you get shuffled to the top of her deck, then go ahead and date her.
2006-09-24 19:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well well this is a first for me, I say wait a little bit longer, you don't want to be known as the rebound , and if you attack her now people are going to say that you prey on the vulnerable ones let her make the first move, if she likes you as much as you think then she will come around eventually
2006-09-24 19:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by Dr Danielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, but maintain a friendship. You never know what might happen down the line.
2006-09-24 19:40:52 · answer #5 · answered by kath 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like her and think she might be right for you then wait give it time. she was with her ex for quite awhile and maybe she just needs some time before she can fully move on
2006-09-24 19:42:36 · answer #6 · answered by Lizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you have already narrowed it down to two paths of action. it would probably be best for you to decide on your own. or you could always flip a coin. im kidding though. if you really do like her then wait for her.
2006-09-24 19:43:10 · answer #7 · answered by paliquin857 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really like her then wait it out until she's ready it'll do u alot of justice.
2006-09-24 19:42:31 · answer #8 · answered by sexyblakk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say wait it out.. but not too long... if you wait too long she might lose interest in you and find someone else....
2006-09-24 19:41:22 · answer #9 · answered by tyler15463210 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋