well i just started going out with this guy. its not like we have talked like about everything yet but were close. we cuddle and kiss but its like he wants a little more action with it. i told him he cant touch my boobs and he respects that. i just dont want everytime we see each other to be all about making out or go too fast or anything. i like just cuddling and kissing. but i really like this guy. how do i get him to take things at a steady pace without making it too stressful? or wierd?
2006-09-24 12:28:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Teenage boys want to grope boobs im afraid, fact of life. And they never grow out of it either! My hubby is still obsessed with my boobs after 13 years of marriage.
Just make it clear in a non-pushy way that you arent ready to do that kind of stuff.
If he likes you enough, he will back off, if he gets pushy, dump him, cos he isnt respecting you. make sure you stay away from situations where he can make advances.
By the way, its nice to hear from a teen that isnt jumping into bed with someone!!
Good luck, and dont let him do anything you are uncomfortable with.
xxxxx
2006-09-24 12:35:56 · answer #1 · answered by lozzielaws 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend how you feel and how uncomfortable it feels that he wants to go really fast. He should understand you. If it still continues on, then you should probably think of breaking up then. He might want to get under your pants.
2006-09-24 12:31:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
like most on here i think it would be smart to talk to him. dont make him feel like a horn dog but try and explain where you stand without hurting his feelings. its mostly about communication in this situation.
2006-09-24 12:35:53 · answer #3 · answered by sheldaan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him very simply that you like him very much, but that it would be best if you keep sex off till marriage. His reaction will tell you heaps about his level of maturity, and what he really thinks about you.
2006-09-24 12:33:59 · answer #4 · answered by ChildofGrace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it. im sure he will understand if he really cares about you
2006-09-24 12:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by Glitter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋