My ex boyfriend just called me boring. I don't drink or go to night clubs. I am going to start going to adultish clubs, but I was wondering what are some ways I can liven up my life?
2006-09-24 12:20:49 · 21 answers · asked by Jessica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Despite what your ex-boyfriend thinks, you could be tired and yes your life might be a little boring. So what, the only thing holding you back is yourself. Try walk to a place instead of driving there. That way you have more time to let life happen and you'll be able to show off all of your body instead of just your face while it's yelling at other drivers while your doing it. Instead of dressing normally, throw a little flare into it. That short skirt and low cut top ain't going to show itself off. Why just take a passing glance when you could give the guy the full-blown "Yea, I'm sexy, and so are you" look. If your more out going, the guys that are around will be as well. There's a reason why we're looking around you know. It's for you. I hope this helped, good luck.
2006-09-24 12:30:31 · answer #1 · answered by binhducduong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, you don't have to drink and go out to night clubs just to be exiting. And if it is your ex telling you this, then why should you care?! You can always go see a movie every Friday night with your girl friends. Or go bowling in your pajamas. Live a random life every now and then. And don't sweat the small stuff! Because in the end, none of it really matters.
2006-09-24 19:31:07 · answer #2 · answered by Krissa D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can liven up your life by not listening to your ex-boyfriend. Why does he need to be entertained? Could be HIS life is so boring and he was counting on some excitement from another person. Do what you want to do not what you think someone else will find exciting. If you want to join a knitting group - go ahead! At least you're doing SOMETHING and not depending on someone else.
2006-09-24 19:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by Lioness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why give a crap what your ex boyfriend thinks ? hes out of your life. you dont need to drink to liven up your life. you can have fun without being drunk. night clubs are always fun. go with a friend and dance out in the middle of the dance floor. but dont drink if you dont feel comfortable doing so.
2006-09-24 19:25:42 · answer #4 · answered by yourprettyhot123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boring?! Often that's how a novice describes a tool he can't use, or a poor man a car he can't buy. You are in the wrong place girl. There is so much more to life than clubbing. I wonder how much time Joyce Meyer spent in the club. You need to out of his life and in to constructive relationships.
2006-09-24 19:29:49 · answer #5 · answered by ChildofGrace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't even care what he says. I don't go to clubs or stuff like that either, but I don't think that I'm a boring a person. You don't have to go to clubs to have a live and popping life just do what makes you happy and that's all that matters.
2006-09-24 19:26:04 · answer #6 · answered by BrownSuga26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
decorate your house/apartment/room differently, buy a cool car(if you want to lol) Maybe try a night club or somethingbut if you really dnt want to... then just go with friends to a dance club ( not a night one because those tend to be more extreme) and just have fun. And dont care about what your ex says anyways =)
2006-09-24 19:25:17 · answer #7 · answered by girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to change yourself to gain approval from others. Some people think football players are boring, and rap music is boring. I am one of those people. You will never be exciting to everyone. You have to spend your energy pursuing what makes you happy, and not trying to change into something that you are not.
2006-09-24 19:24:09 · answer #8 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be a fun person to be around.. don't plan on anything rash, just to change something that doesn't need to change. If you are fun, you will attract many to you. Shy people will gravitate toward someone who is outgoing and feels good to be around. Just make them feel welcome when they show up.
2006-09-24 19:25:30 · answer #9 · answered by mrcricket1932 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a guy that respects what you want to do rather than a guy who will call you boring.
2006-09-24 19:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by Heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋