I've been talking to this girl for awile now. We have been really getting into it for about two months now...But...here is the problem. Every time I have tried to see her (in person) she has an excuse, something happens, or something else and so we don't meet, I try to work the problem out but then a new problem occures, it's very fustrating! It is alittle more complicated than what I have told you, but what do you think? Am I just so desprate for a girlfriend that I wont relize the truth that she is playing me? I just want to see what you think. Please help!
2006-09-24 12:16:58 · 8 answers · asked by Jahrel J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To answer some questions, Yes I have offered to meet her in public, or with some friends, also I have talked to her in person, I have seen her picture.
2006-09-24 12:32:03 · update #1
I'm really sorry you are going through this right now, but I hate to say it she's either using you or she's just not into you. I know you don't want to hear this, but it's just my opinion based on what you have written. Trust me when I tell you that when people have every excuse in the book everytime you want to talk with them or go out with them then they are cheating,playing you, or just doesn't have that spark with you anymore. I have been where you are right now, and in the end it all came out this way. Instead of her just being upfront with you about this, she just keeps tagging you along, but she's hurting you in the process. You don't need this girl and you don't need this situation. I'm sure your a handsome man and could probably get who you want. Don't waste this precious time you have right now waiting around for her and the excuses she has all the time. I am a firm believer that a person should never waste someone else's time and their own time as well. The time you spend wasting on her you could be meeting a terrific girl that won't have excuses all the time and would love to be in your company as well. You sound like a very caring and sweet guy. You deserve better, leave her and go get someone that will appreciate you and your love. By the way, I don't know if this is a relationship online or not, but if it isn't then all my advice applies to real life. You didn't specify whether it was online or not. Good luck with your life either way!!!
2006-09-24 12:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds liek she's not ready for what you are yet. It coudl be that she's just beign careful meeting you in person because you never know who you are really talking to online. Have you suggested meeting at public places at teh mall, maybe with her and your friends?? If not, then maybe move on. Don't settle because you are desperate. If you are outlooking for a girl and looking desperate than most likely you wont' find a girl. just chill, take your time and someone will come along.
God bless
~Latina. es~
2006-09-24 12:20:23 · answer #2 · answered by A_Latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be feeling insecure and shy about what you'll think of her when you guys meet face to face.
Tell her that you don't care about what she looks like and that it's her personality that you're in love with.
Or if she is truly too busy to meet up, there has to be some time that she's free! Be patient and wait on it.
2006-09-24 12:26:12 · answer #3 · answered by beachh babyy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is coming up with reasons not to see you. Do you know her from real life or have you not even met her yet? If you haven't even met her, then it sounds like she's purposefully coming up with reasons not to meet you. If you do know her from real life, then maybe she doesn't want to see you anymore. You should just ask her straight up, 'Do you not want to see me anymore?' She can't avoid answering that question like she's avoided seeing you. And if she does avoid answering that blatant question, then it's more than obvious that she doesn't want to be with you anymore.
J
2006-09-24 12:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by Jenn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're talking to a guy or an old woman. Have you actually heard her voice? Maybe she isn't as pretty as she lets on and doesn't want to dissapoint you. Just ask her!
2006-09-24 12:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by Rebecca V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i don't think she's worth you getting frustrated over. if she dosn't want you to see her then i don't tink she's a good gf. y don't you go out and try to meet anothe girl 1 that you actually get to see in person. good luk :p!
2006-09-24 12:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by LiL dOrK!!!!!!! :o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh its an online relationship? in that case, i dont think shes playing you, its just too soon to meet. she could be insecure and doesnt want you to see her. give her more time.
2006-09-24 12:21:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find you someone who appreciates you---because it looks like this one doesn't wanna be bothered.....
2006-09-24 12:21:33 · answer #8 · answered by What Will The Spill Kill? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋