if you lost what you thought was your soulmate would you ever care again?

Question

ever been that let down and disillusioned in your life that you can't even be bothered making any effort at all?

Answer 1

It will take a very long time to get over. Your tendency will be not to allow yourself to love again. You will become hardened. You will avoid being hurt that way, but you will also avoid being loved. After a period of time, pick yourself up and try again.

You may be more cautious, but do not close yourself off completely. It will not be easy. If you keep trying, you may never find another person with whom you connect mind, heart, body and soul/spirit. If you give up you certainly will never find another soulmate.

Answer 2

Soulmates don't exist! The word 'Soulmate' infers that this person is your perfect match, the only one for you, the one you were destined to be with.
From your question, it sound s like you've lost someone dear to you, probably been dumped by your boy/girl friend.
Just take a moment to think about how and where you met them. Chances are you met them locally, via friends, college, work, school, or something similar. Now what are the chances, that amongst all the people on the planet, your perfect mate would live in the same area as you? Pretty slim I'd say!
Now, it's not all doom and gloom. I was in a relationship for 9 years, and when it ended, I couldn't see me ever feeling that way about anybody else, the bottom had fallen out of my world, but guess what? You do get over it, the old adage that time is a great healer is true! Give yourself time to mourn the loss of this relationship, it's the pain that makes us human, and then get back out there! Life's too short!

Answer 3

Well,I`m thinking about this all the time.My partner is my soulmate and I really don`t know how I would be able to live full life if something would happen with him.I do have children and I do adore them,probably if wouldn`t have I would be quite experimental and go and live somewhere alone.It wouldn`t be suffering or mouning(maybe it would in a certain way).
In other,if you just loose someone by mean splitting up,then I think that wasn`t your soulmate what`s so ever.You could live thousands of miles apart but still feel that person like he/she feels you.And in any time when you`re in touch even silence could be full of discoveries.
Don`t give up there is allways a chance to find the right person,your half of your half of the apple.

Answer 4

My mother was married to her astrological soul mate. It seemed to put more pressure on her to make it work when things went wrong. One aspect is that every relationship is a learning curve in life, and every relationship has a time span. It could be a lifetime or a couple of hours. Something is gained from every interaction. Which could aid you in choices you need to make in the future. Its how you use that something that determines the influence it has in your life. I could talk this subject to death as I have a lot of personal experience and a bit of head knowledge. Should you bother, absolutely yes. As you can spend your life wanting others to live it for you or you could show up for life and be available and grateful for everything it offers. Good luck and remember you do always have a choice on how you will live this life.

Answer 5

There can be more than one soulmate, some people believe that we are all from a soul group, who we travel with through many lives, this is the reason you can "click" with someone instantly sometimes..

we meet many people in life, some we travel some of the way with, then our path with them is over, but there will be others, everything changes, all things pass good and bad, we must try to learn from everyone that crosses our path, for good or bad, so dont despair, you will be ok, just be nice to yourself, and remember that everyone teaches us something.

Answer 6

I have lost a person that I truly believed was my soul-mate in life. And it hurt so much; utterly awful physical pain that no medication would make it abate. But as time has gone on and almost on a weekly basis this man shows me what a horrid specimen he is, I am left hoping he is definitely NOT my soul-mate. I pray I find my true soul-mate, while fearing I missed my chance in this lifetime of ever finding him due to my wasted 20 years with a cold-hearted, dishonest, untrustworthy selfish, conniving, piece of .... does that answer your question?

Answer 7

If it's someone you consider your soulmate then you might not want to make that effort for a while. However, I have read somewhere that people who have been in a happy relationship would remarry sooner when their partners die than those who have been in an unhappy relationship.

Answer 8

Having been there I can tell you it SUCKS, I think Christ only could understand the pain. Especially when their ripped out of your arms by self righteous judgemental control freaks parents.

Do I think that I could ever care again, anything possible, I just know that I won't be trusting for a long time.

Answer 9

I have a theory, that we are all connected by our soul to 'soul villages' and as we reincarnate we meet the people (or souls) that we've met before. The people who we dated or married for life in a previous life, we meet again, not knowing that that was a past life. Two times in a row isn't ment to happen i suppose as life (even the next life) is ment to be a flow, thusly we meet others and make bigger soul villages.

it's a bit off the wall, i'm a buddist so it's inspired by buddist ideas.

Answer 10

hopefully yes but when you have lost something so dear then there is only survival but survival at a price . You may never love again as before but the pleasures of survival are worth the price .