I love sports, all kinds of movies and music, im funny and fun to be around, yet i cant get a boyfriend. I've got plenty to offer and yet guys just see me as a "friend." What can i do?
2006-09-24 12:01:18 · 32 answers · asked by Hey You! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and for those of you wondering, i am nice, i just resigned my title as miss congeniality. ;)
2006-09-24 12:06:49 · update #1
for jgivesin... i dress more like a tomboy. jeans, t-shirts, sweatshirts. I mean i do love to dress up, i just dont have any reason to, plus i dont quite have the mini skirt body, lol.
2006-09-24 12:15:15 · update #2
ENJOY IT! its horrible when its the opposite! trust me...even though it may seem like a fantasy thing to have every guy not be your friend but be your bf, its horrible, because you dont have a single guy friend to turn and ask for help when you have your own problems and even though you would think that turning to your girl friends is the answer, they are not always there to give you your hand.
its better to have guys WANT to be only your friends,thats the coolest thing ever, i wish i had had that experience in my life, and then at the end, the ideal guy who will WANT to be your boyfriend when the time is right.
2006-09-24 12:10:12 · answer #1 · answered by sueet2b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Part of it you answered yourself. If a guy has the chance to view a girl in a nice mini or skinny jeans or one in a floppy t-shirt and sweat pants who do you think he will see? If you don't quite have the mini skirt body. You can kill 2 birds with one blow. Get the guy, and get the bod. One of the guys you have the laser on, have him coach you in weight training techniques. Then you can bring out the baby tee and shorts, and while letting him teach you flirt him up. He probably would not even know you are setting him up. Maybe you can show a different side than being "just one of the guys".
2006-09-29 20:33:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do you know why I think that is it is because you are much more easier than the other girls cause well I can't really explain why but are ore like a budy but no more than that for most guys and believe me I think you are suposed to have much moe guy friends than that of girl friends and well I will have to say if and when you find a person or a boy who loves you, you are going to extrimly find him romantic and he will trit you as tough you are a quine he will make you happy believe me hang on for some more time and you will not have a boy friend but a person that will love you and understand you more than that of you can immagin... well good luck and I hope you believed what I have told you
2006-09-24 12:10:20 · answer #3 · answered by abeshawiwe!! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean anything is wrong with you - more likely it means you've set some standards in how you date. Don't fret that it takes a while to find the guy that you like, and certainly don't drop your standards. My wife and I both found ourselves asking this question in our dating years. We're glad we waited for each-other. Be the best you can be - the right guy will recognise your worth. They'll be queuing up at your door someday, and you'll have to be sure to find the one that's not just fun to be with now - but to share life and eternity with.
2006-09-24 12:10:16 · answer #4 · answered by warped_factor_ten 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For the time being just laugh with them...they like that attention. Don't worry about the other stuff...guys are a little weird anyway so pay attention and look to see what the really nice ones are like and don't settle for anythign less anyway..
2006-09-25 08:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i admire Hollister. each thing of their save i might maximum actually placed on and that i'm a marginally picky individual, too. there is no longer something incorrect with them, all of it purely relies upon on each and each individual's tastes. element clean? those that like to bash Hollister purely haven't any lives.
2016-10-17 21:59:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Laugh at their jokes.
Ask a lot of FOLLOW ON questions to keep guys talking.
Be patient and wise. In Greek mythology, there was a girl just like you named Psyche, who was so beautiful no one would approach her, they stayed at a distance and worshipped her. After many misadventures --many caused by the jealousy of other girls!-- Psyche wound up on Mt. Olympus married to the God of Love and became an immortal goddess herself. So there's hope for you if you don't get tired and lonely!
2006-09-24 12:11:20 · answer #7 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can be the most beautiful women on the planet and have all of the qualities you mentioned, but if you're not approachable, no one will like you. If guys keep saying they like you just as a friend, maybe you don't take enough chances. Maybe you wait too long before letting the guy know you like him??
2006-09-24 12:04:22 · answer #8 · answered by Gators08 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get your guy friends to introduce you to their friends! When you meet these new guys, be mysterious. Don't tell them all about yourself right from the start. Ask them lots of questions and listen to their answers. Dress casually but look well-groomed. Wearing a cute miniskirt helps! Leave lots to their imagination and they'll definitely want to know more!
2006-09-24 12:03:11 · answer #9 · answered by Jetgirly 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop being a freind and strat being a girl. Guys look at it that way. Weird I know but make the transition slowly and you'll have them hooked. Good Luck
2006-09-24 12:05:24 · answer #10 · answered by jell77 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋