the other weekend i went out with a bunch of my frinds which are all about 2 years older than me we did nothing wrong and got back safe, but when i got home she said i couldn't go back out with them (which she did tell me i could go out then) my mom is a teacher that taught these kids. I next wanted to go to a friends that lives a mile from me and she wouldnt let me go (she didnt teach him) he did get put in alternative school for possesion of cocaine at school which they sent to the lab and turned out to be sheetrock. My parents found out about that but they didnt know they researched it and found out if wasnt cocaine. How do i convience my parents that im not going to do anything wrong to get in trouble are anything like that. Ive tried talking to them which didn't work because they didnt want to listen. What do i do ????
2006-09-24 11:58:19 · 2 answers · asked by Jodidiah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
give them time it is the decisions we make in the past that make people judge us in the future. if you want them to understand that you are a responsible person then start thinking like an adult and re think the decisions you are about to make. also choose wisely the arguments you decide to argue about. grown adults who are mature understand which one to walk away from. remember we dont get younger we get older, and it is life itself that matures us you can either grow up with it or stay behind and fault your parents for not carrying you. if i was you id rather walk with them and show them slowly that i can be mature and understanding. when u have kids of your own -would you want your kids hanging around who you choose as your friends now.?? think about it . your parents have a good point.
2006-09-25 03:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep talking to them. They will eventually listen to you. Depending on how old you are your parents may not have a trust issue with you it may just be they don't like who you are hanging out with. Just keep trying to communicate with them and if they refuse to listen then let them know it hurts you that they are not hearing you. When you feel strongly about something you should not give up without a good try. Good luck!
2006-09-24 20:41:50 · answer #2 · answered by mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋