what does it mean when a man wants to be your slave?

Question

imagine this - you meet someone, they have extremely high standards and you come no where near them - but they want to be your slave and I dont mean housework wise. What does this mean and in what way do they want to be your slave?

he isnt at all submissive, but I admit a sex addict.

Answer 1

You must be really provocative,at least in this guy"s eyes!!

Answer 2

I have a friend who cuts hair, and we got into a big argument along these lines. A woman roles and mans roles. And I even approached the question on facebook and found out what she pointed at first (which i was arguing against) is that a lot of relationships and women and men are confused. They believe they can do all these duties and take on every responsibility only to think everything is 50/50 and there shouldn't be any clear defined roles. Does the quarterback play left tackle when he plays? No, sorry there is a leader and a follower. Which ever one that may be and which ever part that may be at, is up to that relationship. But somebody has to have some roles. And i firmly believe a lot of things i don't like to do. Like washing dishes, cooking and cleaning. And i notice a lot of female friends don't like to the work on their car (even get their oil changed) or take out the trash (only the single ones do that from what ive seen). It sounds strange it makes it sound like "a woman has to do this". No you don't have to do that, but i seirously believe roles have to be established before you get into a relationship. A prime example is going to eat. Nothing is worse than getting into an argument about "we should eat here, and we should eat there, i already ate chinese, naw i don't want to eat that, or this and that" Seriously somebody has to take the lead decide and somebody just has to go with it. Are you will be arguing forever. My grandmothers were both strong black women but somethings they just didnt do when they were home and they did act certain ways. And she still was one of the few black women in this country (yeah i said country) to have a masters degree and she got a schooled named after her for teenagers who were pregnant. So she was a very successful woman as a principal and teacher and now she owns a lot of land but she even had roles with her husband.

Answer 3

First of all, you need to invest in some whips and chains. And the whole idea is so disgusting that I don't even want to talk about it. But I will say this: Likely he wants you to keep him chained and gagged in the basement. Now, you have said that you don't mean housework-wise, but consider this: If they consent to being your slave, you are entirely within your rights to make them do housework. And any other kind of work for that matter. A slave is a slave. They don't get to choose what they will do and not do. You will also have the right to degrade them and make them go naked on all fours, etc. I would advise against it though, cause you may end up becoming a bad person.
Oh, this is so disgusting I don't even want to talk about it.

Answer 4

Some men are very turned-on by having the opportunity to serve a woman sexually or to be her slave. Most men in this situation have powerful jobs (or jobs with authority) and just want the chance to give that power up and become totally submissive. Most are willing to do ANYTHING you want.

There are also married men a.k.a. 'cuckholds' who allow their wives to have extra-marital affairs so they can have the sloppy seconds.

These lifestyles are very interesting and sometimes call for a very vivid imagination.

Answer 5

I've got a basic experience of slaves, doms, subs and all that, so if you want any specific advice, send me a message :)
It can be quite daunting being a Master for the first time, so it might not be for you. Have a read through the following article, and get in touch if you like!
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/S_And_M

Answer 6

You do often find this, men who are in a high position at work and around the house, like to be treated as a lower class, it is a release from their normal lives. I personally couldnt handle it, but there is nothing wrong. If you are ok with treating him like a kid/naughty boy in bed, then you will have some great experiences. Good luck

Answer 7

It means that he wants you to be the Dominant and himself submissive in an intimate /sexual capacity.
He wants to worship your body and be at your mercy.
He may even want you to degrade him to some extent, at this point I can't tell if he hopes for severe punishment or very limited
degradation . but by him serving you , he does want to pleasure you in any way that you choose. He wants you to be verbally demanding and his mission is for your pleasure.
Apparently he has issues with his "standards" he is bound in his facade and feels trapped. you say you don't measure up
but apparently you do, since he has offered you so much and
he would probably do your housework too as long as you have him do it nude or close to it and taunt him while he is at it.
There are many highly successful men that are into being submissive behind closed doors .

Answer 8

Do some research on "fetishes", especially in the area of Sado-masochism and domination.
I might mean that he did something in his childhood that he feels he should have been punished by his mother for, and never was. On a conscious level, he would not now know what that event was; it has become 'internalized'.
Do the research!.

Answer 9

It means that he knows what women REALLY want from a man... not love, adoration, faithfulness, honesty, or morals.... just a slave

Answer 10

I don't think he's got any self-esteem when he says this. It sounds like he's too desperate. A healthy relationship doesn't require any one party to be slave to the other party.

Answer 11

hmmm...

He is probably a submissive (masochist) and he wants you to be his dominant.

Read up on BDSM...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BDSM

Best Wishes...
T.

***EDIT***
Just because someone doesn't act "submissive" in their public life doesn't mean that the person is not a closet submissive... or a bedroom submissive.

Many submissives are very powerful people in their public life... CEO's, cops, doctors, etc. Part of being a submissive is to allow someone else to have the control, to trust another to make the decisions and take care of you. Powerful people who always have the control sometimes like to "give up control" for a time, to have that "freedom" of not having think deeply, make major decisions, etc.