2006-09-24 11:09:48 · 23 answers · asked by lazlo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
>Be a kind person and give her at least 30 days to find a new place to live.<
2006-09-24 11:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by Druid 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First stop seeing her that way,if she is particular that is not always a bad thing. unless it is used to avoid and manipulate. But in terms of the selfishness ,about what,her time,money,sharing chores??? She maybe ur baby sister but at 20 she is also an adult and u should hold a family meeting in terms of what u have a right to expect from her. Be firm and stick with it. Also let her know there will be consequences for her actions. Be realistic about what those should be because u have to carry through once u impose them ok Good luck Curious 2006
2006-09-24 11:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by Curious 2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are brother and sister does not mean that you do great living together. As any other adults you have to sit down and talk about expectations, chores, finances--because you basically roommate with your sister. Once you and her agreed on who is responsible for what chores and how to handle the finances, you can relax. Make a written agreement with your sister as far as the financial stuff goes(rent,utilities,phone, etc)and agree with her on who washes the dishes or the laundry etc. Have the financial agreement notarized at a bank(they do it for free if you bank with them), and give your sister a copy. It is all about choices and the one thing I believe is that just because it is family does not mean that we have to accept all the b.s. If your sister does not want to enter into an agreement like that then you should point out to her that she has to do so if she roommates with someone else and that she can make her choice. In all likelihood will she agree and hopefully it will work out once you clarified who was responsible for what chores in the home...Good Luck
2006-09-24 11:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by What Will The Spill Kill? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
purely relaxxxxx try meditating or yoga to calm u down then overlook approximately ur sister, dont even say hi or something, if this doesnt paintings and he or she keeps abusing u back, pass to ur mum and dad. in the event that they dont do something approximately it u have not have been given any decision yet to call the police. ur mum and dad could be responsive to by making use of now. i will tell that she has been abusing u for a especially long term. im particular ur mum and dad heard approximately it formerly, yet while they decline to assist u then im sorry, theres no way they are gonna help u. its now or on no account. if u dont get help quickly the priority gets larger. do purely it! u can do it!!!! sturdy success :)
2016-10-01 08:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by sashi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to shut up or she'll find herself on the side walk. people like here just need a reality check (the world DOES NOT revolve around them and they think it does).
or you can be nice (which is okay, but not as much fun) and sit her down and tell her to get her attitude into check or she'll have to do all of the chores around the house.
basically? you're older, which means, you gotta take charge.
2006-09-24 11:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by give it to me baby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are an unbearable @sshole as we're only getting one side of the story. Think yaself lucky that you got a baby sister fella.
2006-09-24 11:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't call her selfish. If you are calling her princess you really love your sister. Pamper her.
2006-09-24 11:12:34 · answer #7 · answered by curious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is she living with you? does she pay rent?Set some boundaries and if she is too much of a princess, for her own good send her packing.
2006-09-24 11:12:23 · answer #8 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick her to the curb. That'll show her how much of a 'princess' she really is
2006-09-24 11:11:14 · answer #9 · answered by One Race The Human Race 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her its time to see the real world. Give her a newspaper and have her go apt shopping.
2006-09-24 11:11:07 · answer #10 · answered by shyhonney 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋