My ex refuses to allow me to know where he lives and it is not a situation I am comfortable with. I do trust him to keep her safe.
2006-09-24 11:06:29 · 26 answers · asked by Kris B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
NEVER!!! It is YOUR responsibility as a parent to know where your child is at all times. If your ex won't tell you where the location of your child is, then your child does not go there!!
2006-09-24 11:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by One Race The Human Race 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a bit of a nightmare situation.
Why does your ex not want you to know where he lives? You may find yourself in a situation where your child has gone to stay with your ex, and has not bought the child back at the allocated time, and then what would you do?
I would make it a condition that you have the address and phone number of where your child will be staying, or not let them go
2006-09-24 18:12:49 · answer #2 · answered by pudding queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! I don't care how much I trust the person (and in this case I don't think I'd trust him all that much), but I'd never allow my child to go with someone who refused to tell me where he was taking her! It's just not a safe situation... example: what if something terrible happens and she's not "delivered" back when she's supposed to be. Where would you even begin to look? It would just make me too uncomfortable - never never never!
2006-09-24 18:11:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way, you have a right to know where your child is and that the person you are leaving them with is completely trustworthy. Why doesnt he want you to know where he lives, what is he hiding? Is he your daughters father? If so he will have certain rights but u are the main care giver so ultimately its your decision. But if I were in your situation I would not even think twice, she would definately NOT go.
2006-09-24 18:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if anything was to happen like an accident you wouldn't know where to go to get her, and people would be quick to judge you if you sent your child somewhere you didn't know where she was even if you knew no intentional harm would come to her.
Explain this to your ex as i am sure he would not like it if the roles were reversed and he didn't know exactly where his child was sleeping at night. Stand your ground you are your daughters mother and you need to know and any court in the land would agree.
Good luck with this one, hope this helps you in some way.
2006-09-24 18:22:21 · answer #5 · answered by 2plus3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt, i would want to know where my child was going. Is there a reason whay he does not want you to know where he stays. I take it he picks your child up.
I would definetly want to know, incase of emergencies as you do not know where he is taking the child, what can i say im a bit paranoid its jsut you hear all these stories of ex - partners not returning children and taking them somewhere else.
2006-09-24 18:29:18 · answer #6 · answered by CHIMP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my ex tried that with my kids, he'd have a fight on his hands he would never forget. There's no way I would allow him to send my children to someone that I did not know where they lived or was uncomfortable with. I'd kill him first.
2006-09-24 18:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a chance. What if something happens and you need to get to them quick? I would refuse to send her there until he tells you where he lives and allows you to drop her off. Sounds dodgy to me,
2006-09-25 03:53:49 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not send a child to this man, I would go back to court and explain things to the judge.
2006-09-24 18:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by WC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the judge. I wouldn't send my child, but at the same time am wondering why he doesn't want you to know where he lives.
2006-09-24 18:11:49 · answer #10 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋