okay peeps i need ur advice. i like this guy a lot but he is w/ my best friend. i havnt tried anything w/ him but the other day he tried to kiss me (and other things i must add) me and my friend have been friends for awhile now and one minute she says she wants to marry him and the next she talks **** about him. so what do i do???
2006-09-24 11:00:23 · 14 answers · asked by sas 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey how could you even consider messing around with a dude who cheats on your BEST FRIEND. You should tell your BEST FRIEND what this guy is doing behind her back.
2006-09-24 11:14:01 · answer #1 · answered by Magica! Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, these other answers are hilarious.
My advice is be a good friend and don't let a guy come between you and your girlfriend. The other person was right: There are plenty of fish in the sea! This guy might seem right for you now, but once you hook up with him/lose your friend/he breaks your heart when he cheats on you with someone else, you'll definitely regret what you've done. So don't make that mistake. Fight him off next time he tries to touch you and tell him in no uncertain terms that if he tries that crap again, you'll, you know, do something bad.
As for your friend...well, dating is confusing. She trusts you and that's why she's b****ing to you about her relationship, but that doesn't mean her bf isn't important to her and it doesn't give you the right to break her trust and start siding with her bf. Be a good friend!
2006-09-24 18:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by lj3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your committment is to your friend. Don't let her talking bad about him sometimes give you an excuse to do something with him. Bottom line....he is your "friends" boyfriend. If you have to question what you should do, then you are not much of a friend to her. I'm sure you hid the fact that he tried to kiss you, so I really don't think you value her much as a friend.
2006-09-24 18:15:37 · answer #3 · answered by divinestine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh girly!! First of all you can't help who you love....but he is with your friend. DO NOT...I repeat...do not let him cheat on her with you. You will lose a friend and probably won't get to keep the guy either. Try to get over him....it will be hard...really hard...but in the long run it will be worth it. Oh and if they do break up...try not to go after him then either. It is like an unspoken rule among girlfriends...that you do not mess around with exes...you just don't out of respect for your friends.
2006-09-24 18:09:19 · answer #4 · answered by Blondie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont lose your friend for a cheat.it is bad that he is cheating your friend but it is even worse that you are cheating with him!your friend might have a horrible boyfriend but she has the worst friend ever.when her relation breaks off with this cheat ,she is sure to come to you.but imagine how she will feel when she finds out that you are the reason for her pain!dont stab her in the back.be her true friend and dump this cheating ****.tell your friend everything and beg for her forgiveness.remember, lovers might come and go but friends are forever.
2006-09-24 18:14:20 · answer #5 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rule of thumb= Chicks before dic##
Don't lose your best friend over a cheating guy even if you like him, not cool.
2006-09-24 18:09:19 · answer #6 · answered by niaflower 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it! Never keep these kind of things away from your friendship. Friendship is more important than boys. If she understands you and treats you like a sister, I am sure you can work it out.
2006-09-24 18:05:55 · answer #7 · answered by Angel of Music 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just chill for a sec. let things die down.. find out if he is breaking up with Ur friend.. and then let things take is course..
2006-09-24 18:07:59 · answer #8 · answered by alwayssweet528 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he tried to kiss u when he's with ur friend!! one thing... who cheats with u, cheats on u!
2006-09-24 18:03:10 · answer #9 · answered by green_n6 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Support your friend. There are more fish in the sea.
2006-09-24 18:03:34 · answer #10 · answered by ckurland 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋