It seems that I never like the guys that end up liking me and my other friend (20 give or take like her, lol) but I always fall for the guys I can't easily have. Like it's always a huge challenge, why? Is it just that we like trying to get what we can't have?
2006-09-24 10:49:55 · 23 answers · asked by SuperGurlie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ha..?
2006-09-24 10:52:32 · answer #1 · answered by nakitamaganda 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well.... thats actually a funny question u asked. I was jus talking to my homeboy bout it the other day. Yes it is true that you will want what u cant have, but as far as relationships go... you're lookin for someone who will u give a challenge. Make it hard fo you to get them. But its not that once u get them, u lose interest... u have to maintain a sence of a constant challenge in your relationship... a guy that gives u a hard tyme making it worth your while to give 110% into the relationship. ur like a pyro....u only feel the excitment as long as the flame keeps burning!
2006-09-24 17:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by julyrck 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I belief it's God's way of warning us, "oh no not that one', lol:) You see I physical body sees what it likes and in a sense wants to simply go for it. However, spiritually, it really doesn't match up to what God has planned.
Look at it this way, It's not that you can't have the guy, its that he is just not right for you. And as for the one who like you that you don't easily like.
I can honestly tell you, my husband of 11-years is exactly that kind of guy. I couldn't stand this man, but he saw somthing in me that he wanted more then anything in the world. No matter how I pushed him away, he always came back to me. In time I realized that God gave me the man I was truly ment to be with.
Real love comes with real challenges.
Godbless!!!!!
2006-09-24 17:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by dreamangel20051 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its something to do with the fact that we are taught from early age to strive for the unattainable.
So people who like us must be mad or something or desperate, but people who are a challenge are worth fighting for.
Strange worls we live in huh?
2006-09-24 17:58:34 · answer #4 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are interested in someone who you are attracted to and that is okay. Give it time and you will find that guy who just tickles your heart and you will tickle his too. Just remember that when you find that perfect guy he is going to have his faults too just like everyone else. The difference will be love hides a lot of faults. Be on the lookout for someone who is kind, loving, and caring to everyone around him. When you find this guy, keep him.
2006-09-24 17:57:52 · answer #5 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I think we do like it. I used to do that to. But my husband was one of those "want but cant have" but we've been together for 6yrs have 1 child and another on the way. And now everythings great. You'll find that person that will satisfy your chase and you wont want to do it anymore.
2006-09-24 17:58:49 · answer #6 · answered by le_le_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, we like trying to get what we can't have and then when we have something good, we don't appreciate it.
For some reason, it's the way the world works.
2006-09-24 17:52:36 · answer #7 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well everybody has their own standards so there's no reason to feel bad. Maybe the guys that are attracted to you just aren't your type so you have to go out and look for yourself.
2006-09-24 17:53:20 · answer #8 · answered by Pop princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just shows how we like to take advantage of the good things in life.
2006-09-24 17:51:41 · answer #9 · answered by Source 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ALWAYS get what i want. What is the problem but a little patience? Perhaps breathe baby and find a friend willing to make you laugh.........YOUR laughter will draw many to you...watch...then let me know.
2006-09-24 17:53:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes like a big piece of chocolate...but that is the way it is...just enjoy life and good things will come your way, be kind to others...and one day you will be blessed...and happy
2006-09-24 17:53:14 · answer #11 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋