ok so here's the scenerio..i'm abi female who goes to the gay club alot and I get hit on mostly by straight guys..which boggles me to this day. And the only female that pays attention to me is this highly attractive blond who has a thing for dark haired/tan girls..which is the reason why she likes me. I've been goin to the same club for a year and can't seem to find a gf and seldom do girls want to dance with me or want to make out with me, I guess i must be very unattractive. I've also tried the internet, and joining after school activities but no avail. I guess i'm doomed the single life forever...:(
2006-09-24 10:29:00 · 8 answers · asked by dnice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the blond girl is a player..which is the reason why i dont want her.,
2006-09-24 11:07:57 · update #1
I know you say you are bi but why not try going out with one of those guy's that you mentioned, just a thought. Good luck.
2006-09-24 10:35:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doomed-you don't find true love, it finds you. Especially when you least expect it. The guys at this club are probably hitting on you because you are attractive. Don't ever think otherwise. Every person has beauty in them somewhere. Don't worry...someone will recognize yours. It just may not be the right moment in time for you to be in a relationship. Let nature takes its course and you will find that someone when you are supposed to.
2006-09-24 17:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by blackwidow 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok, so first off, you really dont expect to find "true love" in a club do you? Most young people go to clubs only to be "the player". What's wrong with the "Highly Attractive Blonde" who thinks your attractive? Do you like her? Besides, you cant rush true love. If you do, you'll settle for the first girl who comes along that you think you're in love with, but infact that love turns out to be lust. Try to take your time, but in the mean time have fun with it.
2006-09-24 17:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by Help Me Help You 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look, I am a guy, but straight. I have a friend and she is not, but from what I have notice about her is, she does not try hard in attracting any other girls, she just be herself and let time work for her. Do not rush into a relationship that might not be the one you are looking for, let time and being yourself do the work. You will find that special person you have been looking for, do not rush.
2006-09-24 17:36:37 · answer #4 · answered by allensteele@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
awww! dont worry, everyone is destined to find someone. everynight before you go to bed someone is thinking of you. you could have a friend that might want to be more, you never know. people can be relly shy and discreet.
2006-09-24 19:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by lilangelzheaven 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
join the club. we have jackets. I been searching for this mythical love and have determined it does not exist.
2006-09-24 17:32:42 · answer #6 · answered by dread pirate lavenderbeard 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, youre not doomed. when its tha right time, you'll find that hottie that youve been lookin for. :)
2006-09-24 17:32:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok...
wanna chat...?
2006-09-24 17:34:19 · answer #8 · answered by nakitamaganda 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋