One day it will seem like my best friend (shers a girl i'm a guy, we are 15) likes me (more than friends) because of what she does or says, and then the next day it seems she doesnt. Why is this? She says we are bestest friends but some days we barely talk, it is like we just communicate by just being near each other and dont say stuff. We only say important things in texts or on the phone. If she acks like she likes me most of the time, but not all, what does this mean? She has also told me that she really values me as a friend and doesn't want to loose that.
2006-09-24 10:28:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she told you that you are good friends then believe her
2006-09-24 10:31:49 · answer #1 · answered by Magica! Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's your answer.Realy 15 is too young .Wait it isnt like she's going anywhere .Even if she gets a boyfriend when he's gone you'll still be there.But imagine you as the boyfriend ,& then things don't work out .Then not only do you both lose a boy or girl friend even worse .It will make things awkward and you'll both lose a best friend . Just be there for her 15 is confusing .Maybe in a couple of years you can get a little closer if you feel you want to . Friends are hard to come by ,and Best friends even harder. Spare yourselves some heartache .Good luck ,Be patient.
2006-09-24 17:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by Alicia S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, its not easy to go one step further after being best of friends. obviously u've seen this kind of situations in some movies or shows.
hving a bestfriend is one of the greatest things in life. n getting it one step further will always change it all.
i guess she's indecisive whether to give u da hints or not to give u da hints. maybe at one moment she thinks its da right time to show u her true feelings. but den maybe she didnt get da response and reaction she expected. so dat may be one reason y she acted differently da next day.
n having 2 do it many times maybe da reason dat she wanna try n try again. only when the time is right 4 her. but if u still keep giving the same response, things will never end n u'll be confused 4 a very long time.
put urself in her shoes.
wont u find it hard deal if dat someone u fell in love wit is ur bestfriend?
i suggest u approach her n have a talk. wad does her actions really means. u might even interpreted her actions wrongly. maybe not. so y dun u ask her. clear ur mind. so u wont have such confused thoughts in the future. communication is vital in any kind of relationship - family, friends, etc.
its a good thing dat she's valuing friendship. u guys r still young. there are still many things to discover. so just be positive of this really special friendship dat u've got. its not easy to get a bestfriend. treasure her.
all the best!
:)
2006-09-24 17:53:39 · answer #3 · answered by rufiogerl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she wants you so she can bounce ideas off you. Girls always like security and you my friend are that. In the future it could lead to love or it could lead to a best friend for life. You always need good friends male or female so I would say if you like her, don't worry about it. There will come a time when you will need advice on love and she will be there for you. Try not to read into it too much and just enjoy that you have a friend. I have a friend exactly like that and when I first met her I thought she was hot and all that. Now its been 16 yrs and I have had to step in on a few ****** dudes who thought they were bad and she has stepped up when some chicks thought they were the schit! She was the "bestman" at my wedding and we have been there for each other thru much! I am glad I never dated her, it might not have turned out like this. Don't worry and enjoy the friendship!
2006-09-24 17:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by sixfoot8bkr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you wouldn't mind if your friendship with your best friend should become something more, but you're not sure of how she feels about you...you're confused by her affection one day, and her indifference on another.
Why don't you try talking to her about this? Maybe she's feeling exactly the same mixed emotions about you. Since you guys are best friends, you ought to be able to at least talk to each other about anything, especially something as important as this.
Just be prepared for whatever outcome this may bring. Remember a good friend is hard to come by, and don't let any one thing destroy the good friendship that the two of you have always had.
Take care, you two ;)
2006-09-24 17:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by ♫ Jemmy~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you hang out a lot, then there are bound to be some days when you will talk a lot and some when you won't as much. Sometimes the best thing someone can give another person is just some company, just being with them.
2006-09-24 17:30:39 · answer #6 · answered by cutie pie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look man you two're to young to worry 'bout a serious relationship right now, you could date each other, but don't be serious about it.
she may not be interested in you, or she may be afraid that if she does show interest that if something happens between you two that it will tear you guys apart later.
the only thing to do is ask her about it, if she's game for dating you then do it.
but you two should focus more on getting through school and planning on goin to college and gettin a degree.
so you guys could date, just don't get to serious about it, you've got a lot of time before having a relationship with someone. you've gotta find out who YOU are before really tryin to find out who someone else is.
2006-09-24 17:39:21 · answer #7 · answered by quiksilver8676 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright man you are trying to do something that man has been trying to do since the dawn of time and still has not succeded trying to figure women out just let things be as friends and see where they go and maybe after a while you could always just ask her how she feels about you
2006-09-24 17:31:06 · answer #8 · answered by wrenchbender19 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should keep talking to her even when she doesnt and maybe confront her when she is alone and aske her why she ignores you some days and other days you seem like best of friends
2006-09-24 17:30:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a teenager. Teenaged girls often go back and forth from playing around and flirting. She probably does not mean anything by it.
2006-09-24 17:30:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY FRIEND TIME IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING ON THIS MOMENT, DO NOT GO AND DO STUPID THINGS YOU'LL REGRET...SHOW HER THAT YOU WILL WAIT, THAT YOU ARE A REAL FRIEND SHE WILL NOTISE AND FEEL BAD,BUT JUST REMEMBER BE CARFULL FOR BEING USED??
2006-09-24 17:37:15 · answer #11 · answered by CHRISTIAN C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋